MarcoInaros Posted November 14, 2005 Posted November 14, 2005 I mean, is it possible to build enough rapport with a stranger in a minute or two to get thier interest and number? How do you do that?
NYCmitch25 Posted November 14, 2005 Posted November 14, 2005 I mean, is it possible to build enough rapport with a stranger in a minute or two to get thier interest and number? How do you do that? It was a little easier for me because I've always tried to be genuine when I've done it. I try to be myself and not be putting on some act usually followed by a pickup line... maybe some gals can give their impressions of guys doing this? The one thing that sometimes happens is if a girl thinks highly of herself or is really "out of your league" (which I think is a bunch of nonsense) thus they'll always be hit on and not apprecate strangers being overly friendly for no reason. It's an interesting game we play...
slubberdegullion Posted November 14, 2005 Posted November 14, 2005 I mean, is it possible to build enough rapport with a stranger in a minute or two to get thier interest and number?Yes, absolutely.How do you do that?Smile. Say hello. Introduce yourself. Pick something out on them that's unique; could be earrings, scarf, shoes (wimmen have a thing for footwear, dunno why) and use that as an icebreaker. Be sincere. Use the context of what's around you, be it a pub, grocery store, library, bookstore, park, whatever... All you're doing is having a conversation, just normal everyday chit chat. Then close the deal. "I have to run right now, but I'd like your number. When's a good time to call?" She may or may not give you the number, but that's almost immaterial. The point is, the more you do this, the more confidence you will develop, and that comes through in subsequent deliveries. Don't be intimidated, and don't expect 100% success. Good luck! Yes, it really works. See this
a4a Posted November 14, 2005 Posted November 14, 2005 Yes, absolutely.Smile. Say hello. Introduce yourself. Pick something out on them that's unique; could be earrings, scarf, shoes (wimmen have a thing for footwear, dunno why) and use that as an icebreaker. Yes, it really works. See this LOL! Be careful how you say these things she may think you are a transvestite trying to get shopping tips from her! Really it depends on if you are just looking for a lay or ltr. I would not frequent a bar to find a LTR. Now a park doing activities you enjoy frisbee or jogging ect....you are more likely to find someone with similar interests that way. You have an automatic "real" icebreaker that way........you start out chatting about that. If your frequent social functions that involve your interests or hobby you will find things to talk about right off the bat. If you want a quick piece of ass : compliment the hell out of them right off, buy em lots of drinks, and do this to as many women as possible.....eventually you will get laid. Remember pretend to be interested in everything they say..... let them do the talking..... ask them questions. BTW this works on guys as well.......just dont buy him too many drinks or he may be a bit limp at the end of the night a4a
slubberdegullion Posted November 14, 2005 Posted November 14, 2005 BTW this works on guys as well.......just dont buy him too many drinks or he may be a bit limp at the end of the night gawd, I HATE it when that happens...
Author MarcoInaros Posted November 15, 2005 Author Posted November 15, 2005 Hey guys, thanks for the awsome replies. Very useful.
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