strongwillpwr Posted November 14, 2005 Posted November 14, 2005 Me and my ex broke it off two months ago...I've had absolute NC since then (no email, phone, text msgs, msn....nothin)... I'm mid 20's, so is my ex...my sister's early 20s... ex and sister go to same university... my sister calls my ex a few times a month for school related stuff b/c they're in the same prog....they end up talking about me at some point in any conversation... my sister tells me about these conversations....i guess she really wants us to get back together one day...but given the circumstances of our break up, i don't think that's a reality. my ex has told my sister that she thinks about me a lot, and my ex asks my sister about how I'm doing, what I"m up to, and things like that... Do you feel this situation is compromising NC at all?
Tony Posted November 14, 2005 Senior Moderators Posted November 14, 2005 As long as you and your ex have no contact whatsoever, nothing is compromised. Do not pass messages back and forth via your sister. Tell your sister you no longer want to be informed of the conversations she has with your ex relative to you. You broke up for a good reason. Your ex is simply trying to heal and process her feelings by discussing you with your sister. If she wanted to get back, she would call. It's over. The only way you can move on is to stop getting news of these exchanges between your ex and your sister. If you want to get back with this lady, call her this minute and discuss it. Otherwise, break it off clean and totally.
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