CShireman81 Posted November 12, 2005 Posted November 12, 2005 My girlfriend suspects everything! I can't even talk to someone of the opposite sex. What's up with that? If I talk to a girl, she thinks we have something going on. How do I fix this? What does this mean?
westernxer Posted November 12, 2005 Posted November 12, 2005 It means you've got her right where you want her.
glittergurl Posted November 12, 2005 Posted November 12, 2005 It means you've got her right where you want her. Hahah All you can do is make her feel like your number one; there's no instant solution. You need to help her build confidence in you, she's probably just a bit insecure. Compliment her, and when you're talking to other girls while she's there, make her play an active role in the conversation. Make it clear to both her and the other girl(s) that you are with her and that her opinions matter. She'll eventually worry less about it. If not, then, ehmm, there's always counselling; which I would only suggest investing time and money in if it's a serious long term relationship.
sylviaguardian Posted November 12, 2005 Posted November 12, 2005 Funny that you choose an infidelity site to post this, instead of a dating site... It either means that your girlfriend is very insecure...or that you are up to something and she suspects.
goingforgold Posted November 13, 2005 Posted November 13, 2005 She sounds like she's insecure. Have you cheated on her in the past? Or have u cheated on any partner in the past that she knows about? Or maybe someone cheated on her in the past and she is having trouble trusting other people. I am not sure, but maybe try talking to her, and showing her that she is the only one and there isn't anyone else. Where possible maybe try limiting contact with the opposite sex if it makes her feel better.
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