noclobber Posted November 12, 2005 Posted November 12, 2005 women, assume that a guy friend of urs asks u out and u refuse b'cos u don't have feelings. he accepts ur decision and walks away. what are u most likely to do after that? i am now in the above mentioned situation but i find certain things very strange. after she said she didn't have feelings i accepted her decision and stepped away. she said we can still be friends.. i said i needed time and i will get back as friends if i can erase all my feelings. is this unreasonable?? i know that its a pain to lose a friendship... but this woman is literally chasing me... she sends "miss u" emails, asks why i am not meeting her anymore, ... blah blah blah.. any explanations?? walk and lishy, u guys know what i am talkin about, but wanted to start a separate thread 'cos i really find this behavior amusing
Sloppy Posted November 12, 2005 Posted November 12, 2005 She now knows that you like her. It's an easy attention fill for her (that is if you put up) and she is stringing you along. It can be fun for us, women, to play with guys who are obviously attracted to us. It's messed up, but it's there.
Author noclobber Posted November 12, 2005 Author Posted November 12, 2005 Welcome to the friend zone. ha ha ha.. nice thanks.. but no thanks, i wud be comfortable staying out of that zone. and that's why i walked away.. but she won't leave me! text messages, emails, phone calls, and voice-mails r pouring in and she is literally begging me to get back with her.. the best part is we knew each other only for 3 months! i never knew women wud be this desperate for friendship...
the_dude_ Posted November 12, 2005 Posted November 12, 2005 She now knows that you like her. It's an easy attention fill for her (that is if you put up) and she is stringing you along. It can be fun for us, women, to play with guys who are obviously attracted to us. It's messed up, but it's there. **** THAT ****! dude don't give her another ounce of attention. i suggest you just try meeting new girls a.s.a.p. and it will help you forget about her. she's not worth it if she's just having fun with you.
westernxer Posted November 12, 2005 Posted November 12, 2005 i never knew women wud be this desperate for friendship... This one is a real nut case, that's for sure.
Author noclobber Posted November 12, 2005 Author Posted November 12, 2005 i suggest you just try meeting new girls a.s.a.p. and it will help you forget about her. she's not worth it if she's just having fun with you. beautiful advice.. that's so true thankx man
country gal Posted November 13, 2005 Posted November 13, 2005 Yeah, I'm gonna have to go ahead and agree with everyone else here. Its definately a friendship thing - and very likely with an attention-desperate friend. Imagine how she'd be in a relationship - can anyone say needy?? You should be glad she said no. (on another note, if I wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt, I might say she just feels really bad about turning you down and she values your friendship.... but that would make more sense if she had known you A LOT longer .... and a normal person wouldn't be that crazy about trying to make it right - one email and one phone call should do it!)
Sevenmack Posted November 15, 2005 Posted November 15, 2005 You've got someone doing this too? Amazing. This female I had dated for a while decided that she didn't want to explore the possibilities. So after much back and forth, we ended it a month ago. But she e-mailed me twice last week; in one, she said she looked forward to seeing me at a mixer. I've already chose to skip the mixer; got better things to do and I believe that when it's over, it should stay over. Personally I think we're both dealing with nutty women. But that's just me.
Author noclobber Posted November 15, 2005 Author Posted November 15, 2005 i think they miss the attention from us and not "us"...
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