Help me please :/

[HaleyJean]

Im not sure if this is where im supposed to write this but here goes.

 

Ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend off and on for 2 years now.

In the beginning when we first were together i wasn't completely over my previous relationship.

So i broke it off with my boyfriend.

We still talked and honestly i would get extremely jealous if he hung out with other girls or knew another girl liked him.

I on the other hand met someone else who i thought i liked and ended up sleeping with him.

big mistake.

My ex was never with anyone else because he still wanted to be with me.

Well to make a long story short i realized how much i loved my boyfriend and we got back together and we've been back together now for almost a year.

I just recently became pregnant and everything is going really great and now we're considering getting married but he doesn't know that i slept with another guy when we weren't dating.

We were broken up at the time but for some reason i almost feel like i cheated.

I really want things to be honest between us and i feel like i owe it to him to tell him what happened but im torn because i don't know if i should mess up a good thing to bring up the past again.

Im completely faithful to him and would never stray.

I just need advice. what would you do if you were me? tell him? or not?

[EyeOfTheTiger999]

Yer ****ed.

[HaleyJean]

ya thanks but that doesn't help me.

[a4a]

How would telling him help him? If you were truly broken up it really does not matter. Of course if there is a risk that someone else may tell him then it is best to hear it straight from the horses mouth!

 

 

 

Dont tell him...... in all reality it will just be making you feel better not him.

 

a4a

[JayKay]

I agree. Doesn't need to know. You were single and doing your thing.

 

If you bring it up he may start to think you still have some unresolved 'issues' with the old guy.