Wiseman2 Posted March 11, 2024 Posted March 11, 2024 How old is your BF? Why do you live together? Do you have children together or are you financially dependent? How long has there been "dead bedroom", and where is your BF getting his sexual gratification? Just move out. This way you don't lie to anyone about anything. Clearly Mr cybersex is fictional and could be a catfishing, scamming, a female, a 13 y/o in mom's basement on parole in a mental facility or just a huge hairy smelly ape. So your sexuality is obviously misplaced, as is your BFs. Set both yourselves free. Move out and start dating real life local available men instead of using the BF as a security blanket and having cybersex with who knows what.
Claustrophobic Posted March 11, 2024 Posted March 11, 2024 5 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: How old is your BF? Why do you live together? Do you have children together or are you financially dependent? How long has there been "dead bedroom", and where is your BF getting his sexual gratification? Just move out. This way you don't lie to anyone about anything. Clearly Mr cybersex is fictional and could be a catfishing, scamming, a female, a 13 y/o in mom's basement on parole in a mental facility or just a huge hairy smelly ape. So your sexuality is obviously misplaced, as is your BFs. Set both yourselves free. Move out and start dating real life local available men instead of using the BF as a security blanket and having cybersex with who knows what. He is 28, we live together because we get along well just no sex or barely, no kids and I have a job. I think he watches lots of porn. other guy seems rly genuine I know it seems naive but we rly shared a lot of personal details about our life so I feel like I know him. It would be easy to meet him and he’s trying to set a date but I can’t go if I don’t tell him the truth first.
d0nnivain Posted March 11, 2024 Posted March 11, 2024 Break up with your BF. Then date the other guy. I wouldn't mention the fact that you weren't technically available when you started up with the on line guy.
ExpatInItaly Posted March 11, 2024 Posted March 11, 2024 10 hours ago, Claustrophobic said: other guy seems rly genuine I know it seems naive but we rly shared a lot of personal details about our life so I feel like I know him But you don't. Not in the ways that matter most, which can only really be established by spending time together in person. You two might indeed have a viable connection that transitions well offline, but until you meet, please do not go putting all your eggs in that basket. Whatever you do, it is clear that you need to break up with your boyfriend. Your relationship is obviously not working and you are unhappy. It's time to set yourself free. Do so before you meet this other guy.
princessaurora Posted March 11, 2024 Posted March 11, 2024 Have you ever seen what this other guy you game with looks like? Is he on video? If not, you don't know who you could be meeting. Even without that factor, though, you shouldn't stay with a man who doesn't want to have sex. You're way too young for those kind of problems and without a marriage or kids tying you down, there really isn't any good reason you shouldn't leave or officially agree to be roommates because that's what you pretty much are anyway.
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