confused_1 Posted November 11, 2005 Posted November 11, 2005 Today, I realized that everyone does not appreciate the person that you are. They want you to be the way they want you to be. They stay that you are supposedly gay after watching Oprah show were Terry McMillan confronted her gay ex-husband because you don’t like being touched all the time. Not everyone likes to be touched all the time. Then they bring up what the pastor said. Well you are damned if you do and damned if you don’t. So if someone really loved you as they say then why would they try to can you or ask you to change? If, you change you are not being yourself by making that person happy. So, what happens to you and your personal well-being?
glittergurl Posted November 11, 2005 Posted November 11, 2005 Oh, quit spamming the forum with fake posts.
Author confused_1 Posted November 11, 2005 Author Posted November 11, 2005 this is not fake post jack ass
whichwayisup Posted November 11, 2005 Posted November 11, 2005 Oh, quit spamming the forum with fake posts. We can't always assume fake posts. Give the poster a chance! Today, I realized that everyone does not appreciate the person that you are. They want you to be the way they want you to be. They stay that you are supposedly gay after watching Oprah show were Terry McMillan confronted her gay ex-husband because you don’t like being touched all the time. Not everyone likes to be touched all the time. Then they bring up what the pastor said. Well you are damned if you do and damned if you don’t. So if someone really loved you as they say then why would they try to can you or ask you to change? If, you change you are not being yourself by making that person happy. So, what happens to you and your personal well-being? I didn't see that Oprah episode, so I really can't say much about that. We all do compromises in relationships, to improve ourselves and be open to new ideas in life. I can't change who I am in general, but I can change my attitude towards things. For example, I know I'm a huge procrastinator and can easily fall into a lazy pattern. My husband pushes me once in a while to light the fire under my butt to get me moving again and honestly, I appreciate that! I need that challenge! People are who they are and yes, we have to accept this - But there's always room for improving and trying new things. Can't let stubborness and ego get in the way. There's nothing wrong in making your partner happy as long as it isn't bothering you.
I Luv the Chariot OH Posted November 11, 2005 Posted November 11, 2005 Oh, quit spamming the forum with fake posts. What the hell? He/she/it asked a legitimate question. Stop being a catty overweight cow. Obviously if you love someone, you love them for who they are, not an image of who you want them to be. If they ask you to make major personality changes, then they're not right for you.
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