Els Posted December 6, 2023 Posted December 6, 2023 22 hours ago, Keeves1 said: Point is: I was the problem because I pushed her to have sex in the morning when she clearly liked to have it at night. It just did not come naturally for her If I recall your posts correctly, it was a lot more than that. You were pushing to have sex when it was painful for her, if I remember correctly. At some point in your previous thread you also mentioned that you had no idea that foreplay was necessary before vaginal intercourse, which... might have contributed to many of the problems. Therapy sessions aren't something that you can just do once and be better immediately. It's great that the therapist has helped you realize that you were verbally abusive, but you need to keep going and talking things through. You need a lot of help with your mental health, as you are clearly spiralling here. Please put thoughts of dating, of your ex dating, etc aside as far as possible. Your therapist should be able to give you tools to work through this, if you tell them that you are struggling. After you feel mentally better and ready to date again, it could also help to talk to a sex therapist, as it sounds like you have a lot to learn and unpack here. 1
BaileyB Posted December 6, 2023 Posted December 6, 2023 (edited) Good for you for seeking the advice of professionals. I hope you are starting to feel better about things and the information that you are learning will definitely help in your next relationship. That said, this woman is not your forever partner. There are a lot of issues and incompatibilities here and you need to move forward to find a healthier relationship for yourself. Good luck. Edited December 6, 2023 by BaileyB
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