Time to be official

[Blueyes2791]

I matched with her October 4th. First date October 13th. We’ve gone on 7 dates now with tonight being the 8th. And they’re not just 1-2 hour dates either. They are long dates. We’ve been intimate. I’ve slept over at her house. I’ve met her friends and her sister. We message each other all day and night every day and night. So is tonight a good day to ask her for us to be official?

[smackie9]

I think in her mind you already are...but sure why not. 

[Wiseman2]

1 hour ago, Blueyes2791 said:

. We’ve gone on 7 dates now with tonight being the 8th. We’ve been intimate. I’ve slept over at her house. 

Have the exclusive conversation since you've been intimate. Please try to pace yourself as far as texting all day every day. Have fun on your date and yes, it's a good idea to have the exclusive conversation. Is this the same woman?:

 

[Gaeta]

You should have dine that 4 dates ago!

Yes, clear the air and talk about exclusivity.

[glows]

Yes - good luck! 

[Ami1uwant]

Usually sex= exclusivity 

[Alpacalia]

I guess nowadays it makes sense to talk about these things. Never had such formal discussions in my relationships but nowadays with all the multidating and "exclusivity" and officiality and inofficiality it can cause headaches. "Are we seeing each other or just dating" as if the difference between those were clear cut.

[FredEire]

On 12/1/2023 at 7:57 PM, Blueyes2791 said:

I matched with her October 4th. First date October 13th. We’ve gone on 7 dates now with tonight being the 8th. And they’re not just 1-2 hour dates either. They are long dates. We’ve been intimate. I’ve slept over at her house. I’ve met her friends and her sister. We message each other all day and night every day and night. So is tonight a good day to ask her for us to be official?

There's no strict timeline. If both of you are getting along great and don't feel any doubts or desire to be with other people then why not?