elijahBailey Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 OMG once a year, once a year!!!! YA RIGHT! No guy who has the puty-tang available to him will only tap it once a year. No way, no how is this "ok" with this situation unless he has some side cake she doesn't know about or he is gay so doesn't really want to tap her ass any way. Even the women on here know this comment is obsurd, waiting a year.... Now now don't jump to no conclusions there Tudor. Maybe the man doesn't know how to use it? Some guys are really inexperienced ya know
slubberdegullion Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 54% of men think about sex everyday or several times a day, 43% a few times per month or a few times per week, and 4% less than once a month (link) What I find rather disheartening about the original post is that Loveheart's friend said, "The best thing about my ex-boyf, he wasn't that bothered about sex." The best thing? It's somehow good that the dude wasn't attracted to her??
TUDOR Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 Now now don't jump to no conclusions there Tudor. Maybe the man doesn't know how to use it? Some guys are really inexperienced ya know The waiting game isn't so bad when you first start dating and you want to wait for the right time the the first time, etc. But once you have been there and you have tasted the holy grail whether you are good at it or not, you want to go back as often as possible. Sex and Golf are the only two things I know of that guys really like whether they are any good at it or not. I'm telling you, there is more to this story then we are hearing.
Outcast Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 But the truth is MEN think about sex EVERY day Not necessarily. The world is a vast place and there is a huge amount of diversity. There are a surprising number of people of both sexes who just dont' think much of sex - in both senses.
Panhandler Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 A person who only desires to have sex once a year, has some sort of sexual problem that needs to be addressed with a doctor perhaps. There's plenty of things out there to help a persons sex drive. When I was a teenager and did a lot of drugs, I didn't care much for sex, it wasn't as thrilling as say doing up lines of cocaine. I also think that the drugs ruined my sex drive altogether, and I only had more of a companionship interest in woman. This was fine by me cause I was more of a spiritual person not really happy about all the consequences of fornication. Later I started to just have a very strong sexdrive when I cleaned up completely, and I went out and I started to have lots of sexual contact with girls and have sex with a few. But it was stressful for me, and I didn't feel right about it, it was like a hex or something on me. So I went back to just having more softcore type relationships looking for someone I want to commit to a deeper relationship. But since my life hasn't developed to the point I am ready to have a family, as in financially stable and not going thru many life changes, that is a hard call. Because maybe I would settle with this girl or that girl, but I'm sure ultimately none of them are gonna meet my real expectations. But also I am getting older and I feel like I have to find some sort of mate, but of course I'm still just playing the field, and don't expect to marry till 35 or so. But it would be nice if I found a girl in the mean time that I really liked and I could spend all my time with, and be happy. Most girls leave me disappointed or are too busy with their lives to make me satisfied.
I Luv the Chariot OH Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 Well, there IS more to life than just getting laid. Shocking, isn't it? I don't believe you. You must be lying.
Walk Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 The best thing about my ex-boyf, he wasn't that bothered about sex." So, would this mentality be the reason he's now an EX, and not current. Your friend needs a wake up call as far as sex and men are concerned.
SmoochieFace Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 I don't believe you. Why not? Do you subscribe to that tired old stereotype of men "only thinking with their dicks?" If so, then perhaps you should take off the shades and discover that not ALL men are alike.
Author loveheart59 Posted November 11, 2005 Author Posted November 11, 2005 Im not sure my friend needs "medical help" or anything like that! She hasnt had sex for two years and a half (thru choice, v. attractive girlie) but she isnt interested at all, or bothered. Contrary to popular belief quite a load of girls (even nice girls!) start bouncing off when they havent been with someone 4 over 12months so it does strike me as strange. Still each to their own and that. Im a goody girl and I think about sex EVERY day (britney spears in early days: innocent but kinky. Men love it!!!) So it not just guys who are like that. Luv Me xxx
Author loveheart59 Posted November 11, 2005 Author Posted November 11, 2005 Replt to elijah bailey. I made my ex boyfriend wait for it for 2 years and he still didnt get it. LOL! I had to call the ambulance at one point!!
TUDOR Posted November 11, 2005 Posted November 11, 2005 Thinking about sex is one thing, we all think about it and yes some every day *TUDOR raises hand* BUT not acting on it while in a relationship where it is morally, religously, legally, etc ok then there is something else at work here. I don't know what is more concerning, the guy who only wants it once a year or the girl that is approving of this. Just thinking about having sex only once a year is turning my balls blue.
Tangerina Posted November 11, 2005 Posted November 11, 2005 I can't live without sex, and I am a lady-type biological thingy!!! I learned something interesting last weekend during a sex ed class/training to be a planned parenthood volunteer..... I had always heard guys talk about how if they didn't cum on some sort of regular basis it would litterally "build up" and cause discomfort.... I learned that this is totally psychological (I didn't say that it isn't real, for those who might tell me otherwise, I am just saying that is is psychological, not biological) because sperm that aren't used are just broken down and absorbed back into the body, so it doesn't just keep building up. When men have a vasectomy, no sperm can get out even though they are still being created, and that doesn't cause any problems... that whole "blue balls" thing is just good old fashioned horniness...
TUDOR Posted November 11, 2005 Posted November 11, 2005 When men have a vasectomy, no sperm can get out even though they are still being created, and that doesn't cause any problems... that whole "blue balls" thing is just good old fashioned horniness... Yes blue balls is something boys use to try to get sympathy sex. God I miss those days. But in reference to vasectomies, I am no MD mind you, but men do still create sperm and they most difinately do get out upon ejaculation just as they did before the vasectomy BUT the only difference now is they are sterile sperm. I think this is a big miscoseption with a lot people, the man still cums after a vesectomy but his sperm simply lacks the fertile elements to get a woman pregnant.
JS17 Posted November 11, 2005 Posted November 11, 2005 Yes blue balls is something boys use to try to get sympathy sex. God I miss those days. But in reference to vasectomies, I am no MD mind you, but men do still create sperm and they most difinately do get out upon ejaculation just as they did before the vasectomy BUT the only difference now is they are sterile sperm. I think this is a big miscoseption with a lot people, the man still cums after a vesectomy but his sperm simply lacks the fertile elements to get a woman pregnant. I have learned two new things today. Now I can sleep easy
TUDOR Posted November 11, 2005 Posted November 11, 2005 I have learned two new things today. Now I can sleep easy Well I hope you have wonderful sex filled dreams tonight then JS!
JS17 Posted November 11, 2005 Posted November 11, 2005 Well I hope you have wonderful sex filled dreams tonight then JS! HEY! you know that's not fair. Besides, I'm not sure dreaming about vasectomies are sexy
Tangerina Posted November 11, 2005 Posted November 11, 2005 Almost true, Tudor.... The sperm are the sex cells that join with the egg to create babies...etc etc etc.... when a man has a vasectomy, his vas deferens, or the tube that connects his testicles where sperm are created with his urethra where sperm come out is cut and cauterized.... so no sperm can come out, they are perminately cut off and do that whole absorbed back into the body thing... But SEMEN, which is normally made out of sperm and several different fluids that help them out in different ways... such as giving them something to swim in and counteracting the inhospitable acidic environment in a vagina.... still is created... so the fluids are still created and can come out, but there is no sperm in it... I think what you were thinking of is that SEMEN still comes out but it is sterile SEMEN (ie no sperm in it) but sperm are forever confined to the testicles when thier tube is cut off.... "But in reference to vasectomies, I am no MD mind you, but men do still create sperm and they most difinately do get out upon ejaculation just as they did before the vasectomy BUT the only difference now is they are sterile sperm. I think this is a big miscoseption with a lot people, the man still cums after a vesectomy but his sperm simply lacks the fertile elements to get a woman pregnant." So the sperm DON'T come out, but yes, a man still cums and there still is ejaculatory fluid....
Art_Critic Posted November 11, 2005 Posted November 11, 2005 , I am no MD mind you, but men do still create sperm and they most difinately do get out upon ejaculation just as they did before the vasectomy BUT the only difference now is they are sterile sperm. I think this is a big miscoseption with a lot people, the man still cums after a vesectomy but his sperm simply lacks the fertile elements to get a woman pregnant. close.. But your load cums from the prostate gland and has NO sperm in it.. The sperm comes from the testicals and is mixed with the load inside the penis.. the sperm you cannot see as sperm are microscopic.. After a vasectomy the warm goods are still delivered from the prostate and the only change is that no sperm has been mixed.. There is no visable change whatsoever after a vasectomy to the load
TUDOR Posted November 11, 2005 Posted November 11, 2005 Sure glad I put that disclaimer of not being an MD in there. Thanks guys for the 101. I now will go join JS17 in dream land having learned something for the day. Scoot over JS17, daddy is coming to bed. Man I hate thinking I know what I am talking about and then finding out I don't know sh*t about sh*t.
JS17 Posted November 11, 2005 Posted November 11, 2005 Sure glad I put that disclaimer of not being an MD in there. Thanks guys for the 101. I now will go join JS17 in dream land having learned something for the day. Scoot over JS17, daddy is coming to bed. :lmao: hop in baby and bring your wife
TUDOR Posted November 11, 2005 Posted November 11, 2005 :lmao: hop in baby and bring your wife Great I am going to be Ross and watch my wife and JS have all the fun!
whichwayisup Posted November 11, 2005 Posted November 11, 2005 Just thinking about having sex only once a year is turning my balls blue. Is there such thing as blue clit? Well, I know I couldn't go that long without sex. My body craves it and also I think about sex alot (did ya'll know that about me?? ) so I'm horned up most of the time...
Art_Critic Posted November 11, 2005 Posted November 11, 2005 blue clit? ... The only ones I know of are the fat blood filled swollen pink ones..
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