loveheart59 Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 I was taking to my friend recently and she said " The best thing about my ex-boyf, he wasn't that bothered about sex." Now I knew this guy b4 her and I know he cares about sex quite a lot!!! Its happened to me before when guys who are really serious about me say "sex doesnt really matter to me & I dont mind waiting", however I am well aware that theyre only making that sacrifice because they like me and dont want to blow it? My friend has a very low sex drive and now thiks there are guys out there who dont mind doing it once a year. Is she right or am I right? Is it not upsetting to a guy that his girlfriend doesn't "want it"?
glittergurl Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 Once a year? Danggg, that's not a low sex drive, that's just no sex drive at all lol I sure hope guys can live without it for at least a couple of months!! Me and my husband are often separated for business trips, and I sure hope that if he can't live without it, he'll turn to porn instead of a real chick!!
d'Arthez Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 Of course there are guys like that. But depending on your age, it might not be too many. What may have happened, is that the guy cared a lot about sex, but did not want to lose her, and hence complied with her desires. And still ended up losing her. I would not be surprised to hear that he is "getting" what he missed out on in the past, in his perception. There are probably more guys out there who can do it once a year, because of fear losing her, than out of the desire to do it just once a year. Unless they have a very high age.
lilmoma1973 Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 Unless he has something medically wrong with him i find that very odd he only wants it once a yr!!! Maybe she could suggest him going to the doctor to get him something like viagra to help build his stamina up.. I thought guys think about sex 24/7 through out the day!! Maybe he truly loves her and it wants it to be more to the relationship than just sex !!!
SmoochieFace Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 I thought guys think about sex 24/7 through out the day!! Not necessarily true. That is a common myth though.
lilmoma1973 Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 Not necessarily true. That is a common myth though. I guess you learn somethingnw everyday!! Maybe this question needs to be directed to Tudor or Alpha ..OOH would really love to hear Moose view on it too!!
glittergurl Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 Maybe this question needs to be directed to Tudor or Alpha ..OOH would really love to hear Moose view on it too!! Hahah me too!
SmoochieFace Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 I guess you learn somethingnw everyday!! Maybe this question needs to be directed to Tudor or Alpha ..OOH would really love to hear Moose view on it too!! Well, there IS more to life than just getting laid. Shocking, isn't it?
ThumbingMyWay Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 I thought guys think about sex 24/7 through out the day!! yeah pretty much
lilmoma1973 Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 yeah pretty much Thanks i kinda figured that !!
SmoochieFace Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 Thanks i kinda figured that !! Oh, so my view is *wrong*, huh? That figures...
lilmoma1973 Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 Oh, so my view is *wrong*, huh? That figures... No one is saying anyone is right or wrong !! Just from mine and Thunbing experience that they do!!!
ThumbingMyWay Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 hey, I'm just calling a spade a spade. I'm a guy and if I said I didnt think about sex everyday I;d be a liar.....truth is we are dogs woof woof....
SmoochieFace Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 No one is saying anyone is right or wrong !! Just from mine and Thunbing experience that they do!!! Well, there ARE many different kinds of guys out there in addition to the horny Greek Row types.
ThumbingMyWay Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 Well, there ARE many different kinds of guys out there in addition to the horny Greek Row types. quite so.... some mask it well and some dont. But the truth is MEN think about sex EVERY day
SmoochieFace Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 quite so.... some mask it well and some dont. But the truth is MEN think about sex EVERY day I sure as *beep* wasn't thinking about it during the week after I got my wisdom teeth yanked out! All right... if you mean "every day" as in "at least one time each day" then that would make more sense. I will say that I do not think about it "24/7" as was declared earlier. I've got much more going on in life than that.
ThumbingMyWay Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 All right... if you mean "every day" as in "at least one time each day" then that would make more sense. technical details....hahahah well no not every minute of every day....but quite often during our waking moments.
SmoochieFace Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 technical details....hahahah Yeah, I've been known to *pick nits* at times. Back to the subject at hand... I think it is VERY unrealistic for ANYONE to not want it more than once per year. That seems to be indicative of something medically wrong.
lilmoma1973 Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 hey, I'm just calling a spade a spade. I'm a guy and if I said I didnt think about sex everyday I;d be a liar.....truth is we are dogs woof woof.... Ok well then came straight from the horse mouth then!!! (pardon the pun)
lilmoma1973 Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 Yeah, I've been known to *pick nits* at times. Back to the subject at hand... I think it is VERY unrealistic for ANYONE to not want it more than once per year. That seems to be indicative of something medically wrong. Totally agree with ya on that !!
Basic Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 If my quest for sex is scaring a girl away, I will cool it and say it's a just secondary- I can wait. No sex in general? A man should have sex by age 21, or he will always be slightly insane. After having had sex a number of times, a man will NEED it, but in time he can simmer down and live with the rare score. I'm not there yet, but I see plenty for 50+ guys living without it, or getting it once a month.
SmoochieFace Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 Totally agree with ya on that !! Which part - the picking nits part or the *serious* part?
SmoochieFace Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 A man should have sex by age 21, or he will always be slightly insane. Well, I first had it at 20 so I guess that means I just missed the opportunity to be eternally slightly insane. Damn!
TUDOR Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 OMG once a year, once a year!!!! YA RIGHT! No guy who has the puty-tang available to him will only tap it once a year. No way, no how is this "ok" with this situation unless he has some side cake she doesn't know about or he is gay so doesn't really want to tap her ass any way. Even the women on here know this comment is obsurd, waiting a year....
glittergurl Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 OMG once a year, once a year!!!! YA RIGHT! No guy who has the puty-tang available to him will only tap it once a year. No way, no how is this "ok" with this situation unless he has some side cake she doesn't know about or he is gay so doesn't really want to tap her ass any way. Even the women on here know this comment is obsurd, waiting a year.... Hahah :lmao:
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