Final Heaven Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 Okay so I met this girl in college who is in the same class as I am. She was a newcomer, she was one of those shy and quiet type of girl. Anyway later on I approached her and whip up a conversation, which went quite well. As day pass we became good friends, I must admit I did flirt with her once in a while. After a while I notice that she is into me, from her actions,the way she talks and the messages she sends to me. I don't feel like rejecting her because she treats me nice, she never fails to return my calls regardless, never turn me down when I ask her out for lunch or anything whatsoever. So I decided to give it some time and see if I really felt the same about her. But nothing has changed and this time I know the reason is because I am not physically attracted to her. To make matters worse one day she ask me to join her and two other female friends of hers for dinner. When I met both her friends I was instantly attracted to one of her friends. Later on when I was sending her home she ask what I think of her friends so I just said "oh you know so so is kinda cute", then she just laughed and smile. I didn't say I was interested in her friend because I didn't want to break her heart. So I decided it was best if I did not make any move on her friend for the time being. Now things between her and me are getting serious. Everytime we exchange messages or talked she would leave hints for me to pick up on. I know she is waiting for me to ask her to be my steady, but I don't wanna do it because I know it wouldn't work out with her. At the same time I want to at least try and see if I have any chance at all with her friend. It's like something I have to at least try, cause I know if I don't I might regret later. But I don't really know how to go about doing so. How can I do it without breaking her heart? Cause I know how it feels to see someone you really like fall for your friend instead of you.
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