mullins Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 Its been 10 months since i went through all the despair over loosing the one i loved, tracing my posts to 'my story' will enlighten you. Well i met 2 wonderfull women sinse she left me, and i have had to leave them both, i just cant seem to get over my x, i now know she is in 'love' with yet another guy 6000 mile away online, he has taken time out to mail me telling me how he has my wife and i dont....i could do time inside for this if he were in my country!! She has fed him a pack of lies. Deep in my heart i know we would never work out, she is not the mother and wife she should be, she has made it clear she wants me to have both the girls at the weekend so she cant chat to him...i have one daughter with special needs full time, she has the other who is fine. All i want to know is why cant i get a woman that i know is no good for me out of my head? its so destructive. I have 2 women in the background that would do anything for me, its not fair on them.
genEric Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 All i want to know is why cant i get a woman that i know is no good for me out of my head? its so destructive. I have 2 women in the background that would do anything for me, its not fair on them. Familiarity. The "comfort zone". The same reason I sometimes think I "miss" my ex as well. A friend once told me: You've been sleeping in a bed made of rocks for years. Someone gives you a nice comfy soft bed to sleep in. You toss and turn and in the middle of the night crawl right back into your bed of rocks. Not because its really more comfy, but because your used to it. You know it. Its familiar. I'm a human. I fear or at least resist change. -genEric
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