onelife22 Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 I met this girl through one of my friends about a month ago.. we started talking and exchanged phone numbers.. So we started hanging out (going to clubs, movies, etc.). After a couple of weeks, we started becoming a lot more intimate and ended up in bed together. She started talking about wanting to get more serious with me, asking me out. (She had gotten out of a four-year relationship about 4 months ago and I had gotten out of a 1-year relationship about a month ago.) I gave her an answer about a week later, which confused her a little; I just needed that week to think about it. So, we became official. After just a week, she decides to break up with me and tells me that she thought she was ready for a new relationship but she really wasn't. She said she wanted to get to know me better before she wanted to be in a relationship with me. I am just confused by the whole thing, because I don't understand how she could change her mind so quickly. I really like her and would like to be in a relationship with her, to give it a second chance. She is just used to knowing someone for longer before going out with them, because she knew her ex bf since she was a kid. So, she still wants to be friends with me and hang out with me like the way we used to. She doesn't want to rush into anything. We almost never talk to each other now over the phone or IM, coming from talking to each other everyday. I am wondering if I should just cut off all contact completely with her and blow her off for tomorrow since she wanted to meet up. Or should I tell her how I feel and see what happens from there? I really don’t want to push her into it or make it seem like I am desperate. Or, should I just not say anything at all and continue on like were still friends and wait it out? Any advice would be helpful. Thanks
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