lileve01 Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 In a nutshell... I broke up with my boyfriend of three years for this guy who I totally fell for, even cheated on my boyfriend before we broke up. (I was wrong, and know it, but we had issues). Finally we are together, this had been going on for a year but didn't say anything to certain people because rumor had it that we cheated. Anyway, he brings me to his sisters wedding, and introduces me to the family. everyone supposedly thought I was great. Anyway he did ask if I talked to my X. I lied and said no in fear of his response. Eventually it came out and he said he had no trust in me. The thing is I never was trying to get back with the X, he just always called, and I felt bad (remember 3yr relationship).Anyway after the argument we didnt talk then he called me two days later saying we need to talk. Came to my house and said he was inlove with me. Now I find that for about 3 weeks he had been texting some girl and saying that she was a girl he could love, and told his fam about her. So I confronted him with her, and he said that he was glad that this happened because he wanted to break up for a while because he couldn't trust me. Then used the "I was drunk when I came over" excuse, and said I love you. The next day he remembered everything word for word. I know he wasn't drunk, buzzed maybe, not drunk. The next day he even brought up us moving down south. The last thing he said to me was "I guarantee you end up with your ex" What do you guys reading this think?
NrclptcNSmniak Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 mmm i think its a combination of both... he probably feels jealous of your x and feels like he has to get back at you. he probably feels deep down that you still have feelings for your ex and that he could lose you. he doesn't want to become the victim so as a defense he dcidedes to tell another girl that he loves her. he probably also doesn't want your relationship to end but is still hurt or has bad feelings about you talking to your ex..... iono... ive always been a doormat when it comes to these things... but contrary to that, if he can't get over his own problems, i don't think it would be healthy for either of you to continue to pursue a relationship. i don't think its right for you to have to put up with him telling some other person taht he loves her.... and telling his family about her...... if hes willing to apologize and get over that whole trust issue and jealousy thing, and if you still love him after all that... then it's your choice... but ........ getting over stuff like that isn't a walk in the park. even if he says hes over it... chances are that he isn't and osmething like that is gonna happen later on in the future after uve wasted even more of your life with him.
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