hugo fernando Posted September 8, 2023 Share Posted September 8, 2023 Just noticed days 2 ago that my wife was flirting with ex-boyfriend since months now. What I could se so far on, calls, messages, Whattsapp, Insta, Face, etc.... nothing special. I've forgive her! Now the trust is down, and I feel the need of track her time to time. I've turned on the geo-location with GPS on her phone, but she already detected and disable it. By GSM antena signal is somethis possible. So, does someone know a way of activate the location of the phone in a way I can see where she is going? I feel this need at least for some months and then, stop it because is it's a disease Can someone suggest any way of doing it, if possible for free? Link to post Share on other sites
JTSW Posted September 8, 2023 Share Posted September 8, 2023 (edited) If she disabled it then she is definitely hiding where she is going, and that is likely to his place. It seems like she had rekindled something with this ex and is possibly having an affair with him. Whatever it is, it's definitely not innocent. Do you have the funds to maybe hire a PI to see where she is going? Are you able to maybe follow her? Unfortunately nothing is really free these days. Edited September 8, 2023 by JTSW Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted September 8, 2023 Share Posted September 8, 2023 (edited) 1 hour ago, hugo fernando said: .i've turned on the geo-location with GPS on her phone, but she already detected and disable it.By GSM antena signal is somethis possible. See if it's legal in your area to install any sort of spyware or tracking devices. Try talking to each other about boundaries. That could solve the real problem. Edited September 8, 2023 by Wiseman2 Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted September 8, 2023 Share Posted September 8, 2023 You know that bad feeling you have at the bottom of your stomach....it will never go away. If she does not want to be a good wife then divorce and marry someone that understands what a marriage really means. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted September 8, 2023 Share Posted September 8, 2023 (edited) This is tricky. In her shoes, I'd be open to listening to how you feel and would be open to having mutual trackers to restore trust. But I would not be OK with a partner tracking me without first discussing it. I'd probably turn it off too. Also, it's illegal where I live. Apologise for doing this without her permission and talk with her. Edited September 8, 2023 by basil67 Link to post Share on other sites
Rusty78 Posted September 9, 2023 Share Posted September 9, 2023 20 hours ago, hugo fernando said: Just noticed days 2 ago that my wife was flirting with ex-boyfriend since months now. What I could se so far on, calls, messages, Whattsapp, Insta, Face, etc.... nothing special. I've forgive her! You forgive her? You have just taught your wife there are no consequences to her bad behaviour. She will see you as weak. She will continue. She will now be more careful with her actions, and phone. She wants to play with the ex and have your support. She has destroyed your trust, over stepped your boundaries, likely broken her marriage vows. She has betrayed you. Go see the best divorce attorney you can afford, tell her nothing, don't say anything to her. Don't sleep with her. The husband will always be the last to know about his wife's infidelities. Link to post Share on other sites
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