francis Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 i got dumped by an email, so it went on about how we should end this relationship, blah blah blah...and on the bottom he wrote 'take care'. that killed me, he wrote two years off with a 'take care', as if he were writing a thank you note to some distant relative. TAKE CARE????!!!! for reaaaaal??!! ha ha the relationship's over...but, oh! take care... yeah right following this email, i flew from the uk to Hong Kong to see him and talk it through, i was so angry and felt i deserved a 'non cowards way out' conversation. he managed to fit me in between lunch with his parents and a football match for a 45 minute conversation. gosh, i must have meant so much to him! nice. this thread is great, very therapeutic...! bringing it back home how great he actually is!
downcydeguy Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 The worst thing my ex said? "I miss you already. I love you so much and can't wait to be in your arms when I get back"... ...then walked to her plane for Spain. Dumped me less than 2 months later using the "I love you, just not IN love with you" sh*t.
quankanne Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 Much as he needed 5000 volts blasted into his brain, I could never quite bring myself to do it. :lmao: ooooohhhhhh, that's priceless! the one that still pisses me off? An ex-boyfriend, years after we broke up, who told me "After I put you on the plane back to Texas, I picked up this redhead in the airport and took her to bed …" . Yep, the same anal pore who bitched about the goodbye kiss I'd given him just before I left on that flight, "You have to turn it into a feckin' romance novel." suffice to say, nearly 20 years later, I'm the one who's ended up with a good guy, a long-term relationship and a life I enjoy, while HE is a bitter old man whose wife left him the minute she gave birth to their kid, who lives alone and who cannot sustain a relationship with a woman. The curious part is that one of the last times he saw me, he was trying to relive his glory days, asking if he really was my first lover! Jackass ... I should have said something like, "unfortunately yes, because you really were crappy and I should have waited."
westernxer Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 An ex in college told me I lived a sheltered life. This was moments after I broke up with her. I was like, "say what?" This happened at Hardee's, while I was eating my burger. All she had was a shake. Then I shook her loose.
Merin Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 Whew... this thread just proves that EX's are EX's for a reason... One of my most favourite things ever said to me... "When I said we were seperated with divorce pending, what I meant was we are seperated because I'm in Japan and she's in Florida, but I'm pretty sure she will want a divorce." OR this little gem my EXH said to me... "Gosh Merin, I can't see why we can't just stay married and I still sleep with other people, it doesn't mean I don't love you" AND I swear to God IF anyone ever said to me "It isn't you, it's me" I would have to reply "For f*cking real it isn't me! Jackass!":lmao: Be happy you have these types of assclowns out of your lives
scobro Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 my ex said "its not you it's me" "i am not attracted to you anymore" Im not in love with you" and "i am not happy with myself" and "I need to be alone" then she goes upstairs and calls the guy she is seeing behind my back but she needs to be alone yeah alone with the other guy:rolleyes: bitch:)
chocolate_boy Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 What I'd wish I'd said back... "I love you more than life itself... but I'm suicidal so f**k off!" lol
scobro Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 Oh and also "you are such a great guy just not right for me"figures it out after 2 years of marriage.The other kicker was "you are such a wonderful person and will make some girl very happy one day".AAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHH:mad:
chocolate_boy Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 :lmao: ooooohhhhhh, that's priceless! the one that still pisses me off? An ex-boyfriend, years after we broke up, who told me "After I put you on the plane back to Texas, I picked up this redhead in the airport and took her to bed …" . Yep, the same anal pore who bitched about the goodbye kiss I'd given him just before I left on that flight, "You have to turn it into a feckin' romance novel." suffice to say, nearly 20 years later, I'm the one who's ended up with a good guy, a long-term relationship and a life I enjoy, while HE is a bitter old man whose wife left him the minute she gave birth to their kid, who lives alone and who cannot sustain a relationship with a woman. The curious part is that one of the last times he saw me, he was trying to relive his glory days, asking if he really was my first lover! Jackass ... I should have said something like, "unfortunately yes, because you really were crappy and I should have waited." Oooooooh you gotta LOVE that Karma!!!
Israfil Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 Both in conversation, not break-up mode: “I see you as my future ex-wife” “I just don’t want to waste all my young years on you”
LilChicki Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 Hmmmm..I remember telling an ex I loved him..and he said "Thank you"... lol...Gawd ..how deflating!
quankanne Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 .The other kicker was "you are such a wonderful person and will make some girl very happy one day" lol ... your response should have been, "Yeah, well baby, it's just that I want to make YOU miserable ALL the time ..." as someone just pointed out, karma's a beetch.
Lonestar Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 "I don't love you anymore. There's somone better out there for both of us" Wouldn't be so bad, but I was 8 months pregnant with his child.
In Sync Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 I can not believe how cruel some these ex's are. It's heartbreaking. This thread has been a lesson in just how heartless people are. AND the real tragedy is we loved these creatures! Lonestar you must be one strong woman because had I been in your place I would have been placed in custody for murder. And you know what..no jury would have convicted any woman after that.
Lonestar Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 I can not believe how cruel some these ex's are. It's heartbreaking. This thread has been a lesson in just how heartless people are. AND the real tragedy is we loved these creatures! Lonestar you must be one strong woman because had I been in your place I would have been placed in custody for murder. And you know what..no jury would have convicted any woman after that. Thanks. I was too hormonal to murder. I just cried.
Jeannie Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 "My sister says you look like the jealous type". (Said after the first time I ever met his sister and said maybe two words to her). "I can get any woman I want and there's nothing I haven't done before, even been with two women". (I never believed that and still don't till this day..). "I'm going to "Treasures" (topless bar)" (said in an attempt to make me jealous and calling me while sitting in his truck in his driveway three sheets to the wind).....my response "You've got ten minutes until the bar closes you better hurry". "What's wrong with you?" - (said to me many times when I'd be laughing and in a good mood) in an attempt to burst my bubble and piss me off. And the worst thing he ever said? When we broke up and I went to his house to get my things........"Take care HON". Ugh - what man calls a woman HON???? Yep, he was a real winner.........NOT!
bunnzy Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 An ex came to visit me from sydney for a weekend, and then after he left he didnt talk to me again, he said it was over. And then he disapeared. Noone knew where he was, not any of his friends. I knew his email password and was terrified after noone had heard from him in a week. So i checked in his email, and found out he was in Spain meeting a girl he met on the internet while we were together! WTF? They got married in Hawaii in September. Poor girl, looking back i realise what an arse he was.
brittanyjean259 Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 hm id like to put it some words my ex had said to me it sounds funyy"..... " too bad it didn't break your neck" " have you no pride...you couldent go with out a day with out calling me".. "i only got you those rings to shut you the *uck up...300 dollars for me is like 10"... " your preety...you can find some1 to hang out with.. "..get the * uck out of my house" haha and alot more
Art_Critic Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 I have posted this on LS before but.. during a fight with my ex wife I would pick up and leave.. normally go back to work. Well this one time she was fighting with me and I said I'm leaving and will be back later on after she calms down.. She says to me " I hope you get in a car wreck and die " She never took it back.. to this day
Author BrainRightHeartWrong Posted November 10, 2005 Author Posted November 10, 2005 She says to me " I hope you get in a car wreck and die " She never took it back.. to this day oh my god how could one say that? if i think of my ex gf thats the last thing i'd say! thats why she's an ex here for sure... well one of the reasons! ps. you have a smile on your face which says 'i don't care!' cool
NoFaith05 Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 "I can't be with you right now. I need to be alone, so I can deal with my problems. I can't give myself to you if I don't know who that is I'm giving away." Cut to 2 weeks later: Here's a pic of me and my new boyfriend on our trip to Whistler!". (not said directly to me, it was posted on My Space).
chocolate_boy Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 Hmmmm..I remember telling an ex I loved him..and he said "Thank you"... lol...Gawd ..how deflating! Yeah I got that in our final week together in September, I was trying to sort out our bad patch, I said "you do know how much i do love you with all my heart and soul" just got "I know you do"... arrgggh!!
taylor3205 Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 I said "you do know how much i do love you with all my heart and soul" just got "I know you do"... arrgggh!! Yep exactly the same here. Along with: "The only thing I can do to make you feel better is come back, but I just dont want to" "I have been with one person since we split" a month ago might I add after 7 years!!! Seen my reaction then said "but it was only a kiss, although they did ask me to go home with them and gave me there number" "I have missed things about us, mostly the dogs and talking to you now and again" And I am missing him 24/7 and falling apart in a big way!! "I just dont want to be with you anymore" 3 weeks earlier was telling me how much he loved me. "I cant help the way I feel, feelings just change" Fair play, still hurts though. "I hope you find someone else and your happy with them" Well thank you so much, that just makes me feel all nice n warm inside.
EnigmaXOXO Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 "... I've just bought the house next door." :eek:
Art_Critic Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 In the last relationship I had.. We were trying ( or I was anyhow ) to get back together and she said she accepted my apologies for my actions and said everything was fine.. When I hung the phone up I said I love you to her.. ( we had been saying it to each other for months ) and she said.. Ahhh that's sweet.. what a c*nt
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