johan Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 If I'm single and I meet a girl I dig, the LAST thing I'm going to do is fix her up with a friend of mine. If she is into me, then I'm going to keep her to myself. If she isn't then I probably won't hang around with her that much. Since my breakup here are the experiences I've had: I work with Girl A. She digs me. But her body type isn't what I look for. Lots of guys like her but I'm a legs and ass man. I also can't be with someone I work with. She's cool, and we're friends, she knows that I don't have romantic interest in her. So she starts introducing me to her friends. Through her I meet Girl B, who is newly single but has started seeing someone else. We dig each other (we've expressed it to each other), but there are reasons to hold back. The "someone else" part is a good reason. So what does she do? She picks one of her friends for me. Girl A also fixed me up with Girl C. And she does little "investigations" for me if I point out someone around the office I like. She's actually going to check out a girl at the coffee shop that I commented on. I would never do this for a girl I was interested in. At least I don't think so. Definitely haven't so far. Either she's into me or she's on her own. Anyone here able to shed some light on this curious behavior?
monkey00 Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 Well, helping other people does make you feel good. So probably she's doing this cause she likes you as a friend, and wants to hook you up with her friends. Friends help out friends right?
Walk Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 I don't think I'd try to hook up someone I was really into, or wanted. But if I liked the guy, just as a person, I'd love setting him up with other women. For one, it'd be somethig fun. My friends, or acquaintances might hit it off with him, which would be cool. Or I hate the girl and hate you and there for hope you hate each other. hahah I've done it before, but not if I really like the guy. If you stated from thet get go you weren't really interested in her, then why the hell not. She's got no real vested interest in you. Hope that didn't shatter your ego, or anything. She must like you as a person, or she wouldn't be trying to torture you with set-ups. I have a guy who I completely enjoy hanging out with , but due to our weird personalities we'd never make it as a couple. However, I have no problem telling him he needs to get laid by so and so, or trying to set him up with one of my friends I think he'll like. He's a friend, that's all. I have no interest in having him as more then a friend, which means I'm not envious or jealous of him hooking up with someone else.
Outcast Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 Maybe it's so you won't go too far away and, if it doesn't work out with her friend she might pick up the pieces.
Lishy Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 She isnt that into you but she really likes you and ahe obviously thinks alot of you as I would never introduce my friends to a guy who was a prick! These girls probably fancy you but not enough to worry about you getting with someone else. Just enjoy it and meet as many girls as you can!!!!!!!
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