mustangsally Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 In short, my ex and I were each other's first serious relationship. We've been broken up for about 9 months. I WAS over him until he came to my school and I had to see him everyday. He joined my social circle, so I literally see him several times a day for large chunks of time at parties, etc. I know he is having trouble with this as a lot of his frat brothers say he talks about me a lot, he stares at me, has trouble approaching me, etc...which don't match in ways I know him and someone he has no feelings whatsoever for. I asked to talk to him because his avoidant behavior was hurting my feelings and he said he was having trouble dealing with this and couldn't right this moment, but would like to make time to talk to me. But I WANT to move on. I want to talk to him to clear some air and maybe get some closure. Part of me would want to get back with him, but at the same time, I WANT to move on. I'm sick of feeling like this. I'm not able to date anyone else because of this and he's been said to feel the same. I NEED to move on and I'm not quite sure how to do it. How do you move on when you see someone everyday and when they're friends with your friends, etc? Has anyone done it? I don't want to feel this way.
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