Butt3rfly4464 Posted July 31, 2023 Share Posted July 31, 2023 My roommate keeps sticking the middle finger at me every time I walk past her even though I don’t talk to her she’s flipping me the bird Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted July 31, 2023 Share Posted July 31, 2023 Are you both the same sex? Either way it's rude. What did you say to him/her? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Butt3rfly4464 Posted July 31, 2023 Author Share Posted July 31, 2023 36 minutes ago, stillafool said: Are you both the same sex? Either way it's rude. What did you say to him/her? Yes we’re both the same sex I said nothing as I’ve never talked to her but she keeps doing it Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted July 31, 2023 Share Posted July 31, 2023 Ask her why she is giving you the finger? How rude. Have the two of you been arguing lately? Have boundaries been crossed? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Butt3rfly4464 Posted July 31, 2023 Author Share Posted July 31, 2023 33 minutes ago, stillafool said: Ask her why she is giving you the finger? How rude. Have the two of you been arguing lately? Have boundaries been crossed? She’s usually sometimes loud i ask her to turn down she’s ignores me guess I’ve been nagging I recorded her lots of times with my phone as proof guess all this just resents me Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted July 31, 2023 Share Posted July 31, 2023 30 minutes ago, Butt3rfly4464 said: I’ve been nagging I recorded her lots of times with my phone as proof guess all this just resents me Please stop recording her. Find better conflict solutions until you get a new roommate. Go out with friends and family more, get a second job, go to the library, etc. Focus on your studies perhaps wear headphones. Try to make friends with people you can get along with better. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted July 31, 2023 Share Posted July 31, 2023 1 hour ago, Butt3rfly4464 said: She’s usually sometimes loud i ask her to turn down she’s ignores me guess I’ve been nagging I recorded her lots of times with my phone as proof guess all this just resents me Are you saying she talks loud or has loud music/tv? Either way maybe you two can agree upon a time for things to quiet down so you both can rest. Is it affecting your sleep? If she is at the point of doing immature things like flipping the finger it's time to find another place to live. Did she move in with you or vice versa? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Butt3rfly4464 Posted July 31, 2023 Author Share Posted July 31, 2023 17 minutes ago, stillafool said: Are you saying she talks loud or has loud music/tv? Either way maybe you two can agree upon a time for things to quiet down so you both can rest. Is it affecting your sleep? If she is at the point of doing immature things like flipping the finger it's time to find another place to live. Did she move in with you or vice versa? I moved in with her been here a year I have before but she does not care she’s in college and kind of a night owl sometimes she loud sometimes I didn’t even realize she’s home but she’s flipping me the bird with both hands Link to post Share on other sites
MsJayne Posted July 31, 2023 Share Posted July 31, 2023 If you moved into her place a year ago I presume you got along well at first. When did she start doing this? What preceded it, was there some incident or she just suddenly started for no reason? Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted July 31, 2023 Share Posted July 31, 2023 47 minutes ago, Butt3rfly4464 said: I moved in with her been here a year I have before but she does not care she’s in college and kind of a night owl sometimes she loud sometimes I didn’t even realize she’s home but she’s flipping me the bird with both hands Is there somewhere else you can move to with another roommate. Are you guys even speaking? Why haven't you asked her why she's flipping you the bird? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Butt3rfly4464 Posted July 31, 2023 Author Share Posted July 31, 2023 53 minutes ago, MsJayne said: If you moved into her place a year ago I presume you got along well at first. When did she start doing this? What preceded it, was there some incident or she just suddenly started for no reason? I never really talked to her first move in just hi and bye I admit when I see her coming down the hall I run to my room or turn off my bedroom light I complained before to the landlord about her after ask her quiet she tell me shut the f up after that I don’t talk her she started doing this this morning all morning afternoon middle finger Link to post Share on other sites
Author Butt3rfly4464 Posted July 31, 2023 Author Share Posted July 31, 2023 28 minutes ago, stillafool said: Is there somewhere else you can move to with another roommate. Are you guys even speaking? Why haven't you asked her why she's flipping you the bird? Before I ask her lower volume she told me shut the f up after that I never talk to her I dislike her cause of constant noise she even runs up the stairs I mocked her going loudly up stairs Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted July 31, 2023 Share Posted July 31, 2023 (edited) I think it's very clear why she's flipping you the bird. You didn't make conversation, you weren't welcoming. And because you didn't create a nice environment, now you're unable to have a civil conversation to get things fixed. You mock her noise on the stairs and are now trying to get her kicked out. You sound like the roommate from hell Edited July 31, 2023 by basil67 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
SlimShadysWife Posted July 31, 2023 Share Posted July 31, 2023 1 hour ago, Butt3rfly4464 said: I moved in with her been here a year I have before but she does not care she’s in college and kind of a night owl sometimes she loud sometimes I didn’t even realize she’s home but she’s flipping me the bird with both hands Ask your landlord if he has another place for you. Whenever I've had beef like this and i have no choice but to be around the person....the best soultion is having a mature conversation. Sometimes it would settle things, and everyone can go on in peace. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted July 31, 2023 Share Posted July 31, 2023 15 minutes ago, Butt3rfly4464 said: I complained before to the landlord about her The landlord can't do anything about roommate disputes. How long is left on the lease? Please start looking for other accommodations so you can find some peace and quiet. Videoing her is antagonistic. Stay out of each other's way as much as possible. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Butt3rfly4464 Posted July 31, 2023 Author Share Posted July 31, 2023 8 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: The landlord can't do anything about roommate disputes. How long is left on the lease? Please start looking for other accommodations so you can find some peace and quiet. Videoing her is antagonistic. Stay out of each other's way as much as possible. I can leave whenever but I don’t want to leave because I’m quiet I want her kicked out instead Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted July 31, 2023 Share Posted July 31, 2023 1 minute ago, Butt3rfly4464 said: I can leave whenever but I don’t want to leave because I’m quiet I want her kicked out instead If you choose to stay, then stop whining about her behaviour. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Lisa Posted July 31, 2023 Senior Moderators Share Posted July 31, 2023 (edited) Thread has had offensive content removed and is now closed Edited August 1, 2023 by Lisa spelling 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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