Gav202 Posted July 24, 2023 Posted July 24, 2023 I've been seeing a girl for three weeks and things generally have been going well. I was aware she had a trip away to meet some friends and attend a few music events, and she went away last Friday, returning last night. We'd spoke about communicating during the time she was away and agreed we'd drop in and say hello every now and again - but I clarified that with I'd generally just leave her to have the best time. That went fine, messages every few days and all seemed perfectly normal. I'd sent one message on Thursday night that didn't get a reply, but I wasn't overly concerned about that. Now she's back, I'm in a sort of weird limbo as to whether to let her get back to work and settled, or to message asking how it was, etc. We've got a date planned for the weekend and there's nothing to suggest that's not happening - but at the same time, the silence is a little unnerving.
Wiseman2 Posted July 24, 2023 Posted July 24, 2023 Texting " how was your weekend? Looking forward to seeing you this weekend" is fine. 1
mark clemson Posted July 24, 2023 Posted July 24, 2023 Don't get overly hung up on texting. You don't know how busy she may/may not be. If she continues to not respond through the coming weekend, then you know she blew you off. Hopefully that won't happen...
leafverdant Posted July 24, 2023 Posted July 24, 2023 It's good that you both agreed to give each other some space during her time away, and it's totally normal to feel a bit unsure about how to proceed now that she's back. Since you have a date planned for the weekend and there's nothing to suggest it won't happen, I'd say it's perfectly okay to send her a friendly message asking how her trip was and expressing your excitement about the upcoming date. Just be yourself and keep the positive vibes flowing. I'm sure she'll appreciate your thoughtfulness and eagerness to connect. 1
JTSW Posted July 25, 2023 Posted July 25, 2023 It won't hurt to text asking her how her trip was and that you are looking forward to your date.
Author Gav202 Posted August 7, 2023 Author Posted August 7, 2023 Thanks, these replies were all helpful. Things just pretty much picked up where they left off when the time came that she got in touch. 2
smackie9 Posted August 7, 2023 Posted August 7, 2023 Ya man always just ask them out again....like say lets go for a bite to eat and you can tell me about the fun time you had....show interest.
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