wow Posted November 8, 2005 Posted November 8, 2005 Hi all, I have been with my girl now for 3 months. We are both christians but I am not as hectic into it as she is. So we have been having sex but she feels guilty about it and kinda wants it to end. OH no sex, that is a biggy for me! In my previous relationship we had sex and now for me not to have at all is kinda sad. Yes i am been selfish, but what do i do? We love each other and have greeat sex but there is the guilty issue. What to do?
I Luv the Chariot OH Posted November 8, 2005 Posted November 8, 2005 Why would it take her actually doing the act to realize she felt guilty about it? I mean, from a Christian perspective, she shouldn't be doing it in the first place. Geez. In any case, she seems a little confused. Talked to her about it. It doesn't seem to make sense stopping once you're already started.
westernxer Posted November 8, 2005 Posted November 8, 2005 It's hard to go back once you've reached that level, like trying to crawl once you've learned how to walk. I couldn't do it.
alphamale Posted November 8, 2005 Posted November 8, 2005 I have been with my girl now for 3 months. We are both christians but I am not as hectic into it as she is. So we have been having sex but she feels guilty about it and kinda wants it to end. Unfortunately for you, WOW, once the sex ends so will your reltionship with this female. She is using the religion and guilt thing as a cover up or excuse to let you go.... If I were you I'd break up with her first and find yourself another female.
whichwayisup Posted November 8, 2005 Posted November 8, 2005 Yup, you can't go back to holding hands...That's not fair to you and really it's not fair to her if she's feeling guilty about enjoying sex. Her religion and belief system is making her feel bad - So that kinda outrules the good sex. Sucks for you. How old are you both? IS she worth waiting for? I mean, does she plan on not having sex until she's married? If so, she shouldn't expect you to sit and wait for her...
Author wow Posted November 8, 2005 Author Posted November 8, 2005 yeah u telling me westernxer. She is 25 and I am 23 so for me it is kinda strange that this is an issue for her but hey I gotta chat to her and see what happens. Hopefully it will past and we can continue to build on this relationship.
I Luv the Chariot OH Posted November 8, 2005 Posted November 8, 2005 Unfortunately for you, WOW, once the sex ends so will your reltionship with this female. She is using the religion and guilt thing as a cover up or excuse to let you go.... If I were you I'd break up with her first and find yourself another female. Uh...what? alphamale, some people do genuinely follow religions, and don't only use them as excuses to get out of relationships.
SmoochieFace Posted November 8, 2005 Posted November 8, 2005 Uh...what? alphamale, some people do genuinely follow religions, and don't only use them as excuses to get out of relationships. Skip over the "Alpha" *beep* cuz he is here for only one purpose - to get guys to be playuhs just like him.
alphamale Posted November 8, 2005 Posted November 8, 2005 alphamale, some people do genuinely follow religions, and don't only use them as excuses to get out of relationships. If she is so religious and against casual sex, I_L_T_C_OH, then why is she having sex in the 1st place???
Author wow Posted November 8, 2005 Author Posted November 8, 2005 Alpha Male, i would be weak to give up and just let her go but I want us to be both happy.
Author wow Posted November 8, 2005 Author Posted November 8, 2005 I am not try to just have casual sex with her. I love her and trying to build up a steady relationship where we are happy and trust each other.
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