lovergirl-notizzy Posted July 4, 2023 Share Posted July 4, 2023 So virtually met a guy online we exchange photos even though he was pressuring me to decide if we would make it official less than a month online dating him we made plans to meet however during the time we exchanged photos he said it was nice then later he commented that I dress like a grandma when he was asking for a bra or a breast pic. He even made comments like guilt tripping me to send it. So when I asked him to clarify what he meant I look like a grandma he said the way I dressed in my photos. It's funny too because when I showed him clothes I liked on a website he said it's revealing. I dress casual depending on my mood. Link to post Share on other sites
JTSW Posted July 4, 2023 Share Posted July 4, 2023 Block and delete. The guy is a creep. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted July 4, 2023 Share Posted July 4, 2023 1 hour ago, lovergirl-notizzy said: less than a month online dating him we made plans to meet. he was asking for a bra or a breast pic. He even made comments like guilt tripping me to send it. Please delete and block this individual asap. Anyone who won't meet in person in a timely manner is a red flag. Anyone who asks for nudes is a red flag. Anyone who manipulates or guilt trips you is a red flag. He has All of these. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
glows Posted July 4, 2023 Share Posted July 4, 2023 Maybe his grandma dresses in revealing clothing. How does he dress? Like a toddler in diapers? You know he’s baiting you. Just stop, block and delete. I would not meet this person. Intellect seems negligible. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted July 4, 2023 Share Posted July 4, 2023 8 hours ago, lovergirl-notizzy said: he was pressuring me to decide if we would make it official less than a month online dating him we made plans to meet however during the time we exchanged photos he said it was nice then later he commented that I dress like a grandma when he was asking for a bra or a breast pic Why are you even talking to him? Stop all contact and block this weirdo every way that you can. Link to post Share on other sites
BrinnM Posted July 4, 2023 Share Posted July 4, 2023 He’s just mad at you about something, and wants to provoke you. Maybe because you didn’t send revealing pics? Either way, it’s insulting and rude. Disrespectful. Childish. A few days from now he’ll tell you he was just teasing. Those types are toxic. Don’t entertain them. Link to post Share on other sites
justwhoiam Posted July 25, 2023 Share Posted July 25, 2023 On 7/4/2023 at 3:36 PM, glows said: You know he’s baiting you. Exactly what I thought right away when I read her post. Link to post Share on other sites
Ageless Wisdom23 Posted July 25, 2023 Share Posted July 25, 2023 Forget meeting this guy. It sounds like he is into Hot dressing babes who are one easy lay. Tell him to go look for it. He is not for you.😒 Link to post Share on other sites
SlimShadysWife Posted July 28, 2023 Share Posted July 28, 2023 Roast him back. Give him a taste of his own medicine. Humble him. And then delete him. Link to post Share on other sites
Alpacalia Posted July 28, 2023 Share Posted July 28, 2023 Tell him you are a grandma and that you only like big poppas. "Hey Big Poppa, it's your grandma here! I'm looking for a big poppa to love me!" 😂 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Lotsgoingon Posted July 28, 2023 Share Posted July 28, 2023 Look, that was the first skillful (devilishly so) move of an abuser and gas lighter. You say something wildly inappropriate and demeaning and you test how the woman reacts. The abuser is looking for a woman who may mildly express confusion but then gets involved with him. He'll up the ante and be throwing you comments that will have your head spinning. And he has you right where you are. Next think you know he has you feeling guilty for not paying his rent and guilty for objecting to his side gf. Someone says that to you, you say EFF YOU and block. You don't ask what he means or for clarification. You block. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
SlimShadysWife Posted July 28, 2023 Share Posted July 28, 2023 (edited) 3 minutes ago, Lotsgoingon said: Look, that was the first skillful (devilishly so) move of an abuser and gas lighter. You say something wildly inappropriate and demeaning and you test how the woman reacts. The abuser is looking for a woman who may mildly express confusion but then gets involved with him. He'll up the ante and be throwing you comments that will have your head spinning. And he has you right where you are. Next think you know he has you feeling guilty for not paying his rent and guilty for objecting to his side gf. Someone says that to you, you say EFF YOU and block. You don't ask what he means or for clarification. You block. Straight facts!!! Very true. Describing how an abuser works to the tee. Please take this in OP. Edited July 28, 2023 by justaskingok Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted July 28, 2023 Share Posted July 28, 2023 On 7/4/2023 at 5:56 AM, lovergirl-notizzy said: he commented that I dress like a grandma when he was asking for a bra or a breast pic. Google PUA "negs". At least he showed you upfront what a bozo he is. Delete block, obviously. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Alpacalia Posted July 28, 2023 Share Posted July 28, 2023 (edited) I wouldn't give this guy that much mental space. He seems like a bit of a clown. Forget the grandma comment, as amusing as he tried to be. Asking for inappropriate pics is an automatic, see ya. Edited July 28, 2023 by Alpacalia Link to post Share on other sites
Lisa Posted July 28, 2023 Senior Moderators Share Posted July 28, 2023 Sorry folks, this one looks like a drive by Link to post Share on other sites
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