cynicalnlove Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 Very true. But when you look at it the other way, they are thinking (or maybe getting the same advice) the same way. So that way perhaps no one budges and both parties move on. Ya just never know. Every case is different, but in mine I am trying to stay strong. Thanks for the help. Yes, see I wonder about that too. We obviously want the other party to come to us. But what if its the vice versa. What if they think that you're in the wrong and expect you to come to them? What if they're reading the same thing you are and getting advices of NC too. Then what? Nothing's ever going to be resolved. Should we just let it go? What if 5 yrs, down the road we wonder - what if i called. what if i had tried to make it work too. Will it had been different? See I don't know, I think this whole thing is about pride or looking desperate or something. So which one's more.. love or pride? I don't know what do you guys think.. mostly to you johnjohn.
Author starr3546 Posted November 9, 2005 Author Posted November 9, 2005 if ur the one who got dumped, trust me, if they want to talk to you they will call you...they know you are hurt and wanting to speak with them
J dub Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 MAN There are a lot of "What if's" and speculations and hypothetical situation questions here. At the end of the day, if they love you and want you back (and they dumped you to begin with), they will call/contact you and GET you back however they need to... They wont be calling to see how you are (also known as fixing their guilt pang that youre not doing so well, or checking up on you) or any other stupid reason. Unless they are saying I made a mistake and I need you back, DO NOT fall for crumbs.
cynicalnlove Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 MAN There are a lot of "What if's" and speculations and hypothetical situation questions here. At the end of the day, if they love you and want you back (and they dumped you to begin with), they will call/contact you and GET you back however they need to... They wont be calling to see how you are (also known as fixing their guilt pang that youre not doing so well, or checking up on you) or any other stupid reason. Unless they are saying I made a mistake and I need you back, DO NOT fall for crumbs. Agree completely. The questions of what ifs will always remain. I guess at times you would have to leave it to destiny.
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