Twitt Posted November 7, 2005 Posted November 7, 2005 Hello everyone! I'm new to United States and live here for two months. I find this forums while searching for love advice. Loveshack, thank you for letting me join this community. I joined love forum before and I get insult and yelled at me, because my english is not good and maybe I get banned here too. I have english dictionary with me. I had a really romantic times, but I'm a little confused because I'm waiting for a call from my friend (hopefully soon to be my vegi). I meet this woman at the restaurant of Legal Seafood and we chat for a little while. I ask her to call me. I wait by the phone for 3 days to pass and I get my call from her. I was so happy I want to jump to the moon!!!!!! I ask her to go to the fair with my friends and myself and meet us at the ticket booth. My lady friend came! And she brought some girlfriend with her. We sit and chat and went inside a haunted house. It wasn't that scary, but still fun. Then we went on the Tidal Wave ride together and she lean over grab my hand real tight while going through the seven G loop. After some more rides, she and her girlfriend had to go home because of work the next morning. I ask her to call me and she said "ok, I will". After 2 days, she no call yet - I'm wondering if she don't like me. I tell my friend and they say not to worry about it, because she is a butterface. What is butterface? I really like this lady, but she doesn't call. I had wonderful romantic time and more romantic things like on the seven G loop. Will she call? I feel like I pulling my hair out. Ok my new friends, I want to go shopping to Borders and look at some book on how to make a vegi very very happy!
SmoochieFace Posted November 7, 2005 Posted November 7, 2005 "Butterface" is a girl with a *hot* body but an ugly face.
glittergurl Posted November 7, 2005 Posted November 7, 2005 What's a vegi? A Butterface, my friend, is not a good thing ... It means everything about her looks nice "but her face" = butterface. So, well, means she's got one fugly mug. And why don't you give her a call? My God, I've never heard of a guy who expects a girl to call each time while you never bother calling her. You need to show her you care, dude.
Walk Posted November 7, 2005 Posted November 7, 2005 Definitely give her a call. She's probably concerned that you weren't that into her, and you were trying to blow her off by telling her to call you. And tell your friends that they're jerks! Plan something out first though. Like meeting at a coffee shop or something, where you can talk, and she won't feel pressured or anything. Worst she'll say is she's busy, then it's back in her hands. Make the attempt, it can't hurt. As long as you don't over pressure her. Sometimes, foreigners (didn't see if you said where you're from. sorry.) tend to be too pushy and forward for American women. So remember, if she says she's busy, just drop it. Try one more time to set up something, and if she says no again, then don't push anymore. Otherwise you'll scare her off. So really try not to be too pushy. I don't mean this as an insult, about the pushy. I've worked with and had many friends from India and UAE, (great guys!) and that was probably one of the biggest problems between us was the way in which they would continue to pressure others into doing things their way. American girls probably won't just come out and say they don't want to date you, or go out, so if you feel she's hesitant, put the ball back in her court for a while. And keep it laid back and casual when asking.
Author Twitt Posted November 8, 2005 Author Posted November 8, 2005 My friends is from Jamaica and he calls woman 'vegi' or vegitable. But thank you for love advice! I don't think that she's butterface. She is very beautiful, but if they don't think so then I don't care. I think I will call her.
Outcast Posted November 8, 2005 Posted November 8, 2005 But thank you for love advice! I don't think that she's butterface. She is very beautiful, but if they don't think so then I don't care. Good for you! You sound like a good guy. I hope you get the answer you want!
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