NightsInWhiteSatin Posted November 7, 2005 Posted November 7, 2005 Every guy i have ever had any sort of relationship with have always had the following things in common : WHY? * They always want to tell you and point out how attractive and beautiful they find other women almost every time you're together (and sometimes whether or not they'd 'do' them too). * They always want to do a deal where you both can choose 1 celebrity you can sleep with if you ever meet them. * They always flirt really badly with your friends and their friends infront of you but if a drunk guy walks past me when we're together and wolf whistles or comes out with a comment like 'sexy lady' and stares at my boobs they get all pissed off and start sayin theyre gonna rip someones head off. * If they find something really sexy or the ultimate turn on about women and it's something you havent got (like skin colour, great singing voice, great dancer, big boobs for example) they always go on and on about it and/or go on about a female friend who does have it. * Theyre busy guys, they get the night off, you hardly ever spend proper time together, what do they choose to do for the night - play on the play station with their mates while you sit there bored ****less. * They always go on about past relationships or sexual encounters with 'gorgeous women' who are 'allover them' but if you bring up anything about past relationships they switch off or go all funny on you. Theres so many things every guy i've been out with have in common i could go on for ages!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GUYS! - Why do the 'majority' of guys do these things?????? Im not havin a go...im just curious
Art_Critic Posted November 7, 2005 Posted November 7, 2005 Sounds like they are all young .. under 25.. All the things that you mentioned just show lack of maturity.. Learn how to not date these kinds of guys..
brittanyjean259 Posted November 7, 2005 Posted November 7, 2005 yeah some of the guys you have been dating are um a little off.. stupid guys stupid guys psh
mini696 Posted November 7, 2005 Posted November 7, 2005 Cant say I do any of those things. I think you hang out with the wrong guys.
Craig Posted November 7, 2005 Posted November 7, 2005 I don't do any of those things and wouldn't think of doing any of those things.
BigB Posted November 7, 2005 Posted November 7, 2005 I've never done any of those things... even when I was young (I'm 27 now) definitely need to find some better guys.
Yamaha Posted November 7, 2005 Posted November 7, 2005 You are dating very immature and rude guys. Change your criteria for date-able men.
MakeMeBeautiful Posted November 7, 2005 Posted November 7, 2005 what kind of guys are you dating? when you are with a guy, he should be captivated with you and only you. it doesn't matter if you don't look like a supermodel, the fact is he is dating you not the supermodel. another thing i cannot stand is a playstation, xbox, or atari. i had this conversation with my roommate. we came up with a theory on playstations and relationships. i bought the PS2 when it first came out for my ex bf. shortly after our relationship declined. my roommate said he still has the xbox that he bought right before he broke up with his ex gf. this conversation came up because i was frustrated with the guy i was dating. i went to hang out with him. he spent the entire night on partypoker.com then the playstation. i got up and went home.
BigB Posted November 7, 2005 Posted November 7, 2005 another thing i cannot stand is a playstation, xbox, or atari. i had this conversation with my roommate. we came up with a theory on playstations and relationships. i bought the PS2 when it first came out for my ex bf. shortly after our relationship declined. my roommate said he still has the xbox that he bought right before he broke up with his ex gf. this conversation came up because i was frustrated with the guy i was dating. i went to hang out with him. he spent the entire night on partypoker.com then the playstation. i got up and went home. *continues quest to find a girl who will sometimes play video games with me* Seriously though, I only play when I'm bored or hanging out with the guys. He should be able to put down the controller and hang out when you're around. I do know a girl who love to play Halo2 on Xbox, she actually gets kinda turned on when she gets more kills than the boys. She kept dropping the controller between kills and making out with me /high-jack
SmoochieFace Posted November 7, 2005 Posted November 7, 2005 The majority of *immature* guys do that *beep*. Stay away from those types if you're not happy with them. Seek out more emotionally-mature men instead of these overgrown teenagers.
glittergurl Posted November 7, 2005 Posted November 7, 2005 Every guy i have ever had any sort of relationship with have always had the following things in common : WHY? * They always want to tell you and point out how attractive and beautiful they find other women almost every time you're together (and sometimes whether or not they'd 'do' them too). * They always want to do a deal where you both can choose 1 celebrity you can sleep with if you ever meet them. * They always flirt really badly with your friends and their friends infront of you but if a drunk guy walks past me when we're together and wolf whistles or comes out with a comment like 'sexy lady' and stares at my boobs they get all pissed off and start sayin theyre gonna rip someones head off. * If they find something really sexy or the ultimate turn on about women and it's something you havent got (like skin colour, great singing voice, great dancer, big boobs for example) they always go on and on about it and/or go on about a female friend who does have it. * Theyre busy guys, they get the night off, you hardly ever spend proper time together, what do they choose to do for the night - play on the play station with their mates while you sit there bored ****less. * They always go on about past relationships or sexual encounters with 'gorgeous women' who are 'allover them' but if you bring up anything about past relationships they switch off or go all funny on you. Theres so many things every guy i've been out with have in common i could go on for ages!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GUYS! - Why do the 'majority' of guys do these things?????? Im not havin a go...im just curious Danggg girl, the problem seems to come from you: you pick the most inconsiderate losers again and again and again .... I've never dated guys who were that rude to me. If they had been, I would have dumped their a$$es right away.
kandieissweet Posted November 7, 2005 Posted November 7, 2005 I would not give a loooooooser like that the chance to treat me that way. Girl, just dump their sorry behind and move on. As in some of the other replies I have seen, it seems as though you are making some pretty poor choices in your dates. What attracts you to a man in the first place? Is it looks or something material (car, money, etc.)? If so, next time you are out and about, you might want to try looking beyond the pretty face with the Fabio hair and pecs once or twice and take a 2nd glance at the guy who is maybe not quite so flashy, but just might treat you with some respect and like the lady that you deserve to be treated like. I would NEVER let my man get away with that... Remember, Fabio doesn't have to treat women well because he can get anyone he wants, at least once.... the other guy, on the other hand... might just be (more than) willing to work a little harder at it because he knows there are a lot of Fabio's out there.... in the end.. I'd take a gentleman ANY day over Fabio (well.... I might like to have Fabio once.. but not for keeps haha). Good luck and above all, RESPECT YOURSELF... if you don't NO ONE ELSE WILL.
noclobber Posted November 7, 2005 Posted November 7, 2005 I would not give a loooooooser like that the chance to treat me that way. Girl, just dump their sorry behind and move on. As in some of the other replies I have seen, it seems as though you are making some pretty poor choices in your dates. What attracts you to a man in the first place? Is it looks or something material (car, money, etc.)? If so, next time you are out and about, you might want to try looking beyond the pretty face with the Fabio hair and pecs once or twice and take a 2nd glance at the guy who is maybe not quite so flashy, but just might treat you with some respect and like the lady that you deserve to be treated like. I would NEVER let my man get away with that... Remember, Fabio doesn't have to treat women well because he can get anyone he wants, at least once.... the other guy, on the other hand... might just be (more than) willing to work a little harder at it because he knows there are a lot of Fabio's out there.... in the end.. I'd take a gentleman ANY day over Fabio (well.... I might like to have Fabio once.. but not for keeps haha). Good luck and above all, RESPECT YOURSELF... if you don't NO ONE ELSE WILL. looks like u r all over Mr.Fabio welcome to LoveShack
Shana Posted November 7, 2005 Posted November 7, 2005 you ask?? They are not. Just the ones your schleping with.
almostthere Posted November 7, 2005 Posted November 7, 2005 Alright...been dating my bf for 7 months now. Although we have been intimate only the past 2 months. neither one of us wanted to jump in to anything until we were sure we felt good about it. The short of it is I think I am starting to really care for him. Maybe not love but something like it. Infactuation used to be most of it for both of us but not anymore. We spend everyday together for the last 2 months and about 5 days a week together before that. Having said all that...heres my problem. He is still not allowing me to be around his children because and only because his exwife doesnt want me to be. I spend the night by his house and I have to get up and leave at 430am because his xw drops off the kids every morning and I am not allowed there. He has been hanging out with me and my kids all the time. My daughter adores him. And when his xw calls he always leaves the room sometimes the house to talk to her. Not that i want to listen in I just find it odd. I talk to anyone and everyone infront of him. When his friends call he just says he is out with people. Instead of me and my kids. Hes 30 im 26. ive got a 5 and 7 year old and he has 7,8 and 9 year old. I think we are far from high school days and dont need to do all this. Here's my solution. Because every other weekend I get angry because I am not allowed over because of his exwife I ave been thinking about asking him to slow down our relationhship. We are very close and I know if things keep going the way they are I will be attached. But I also know I will leave him over this no matter how i feel. I think its cr*p and so does all of our friends. Our kids dont even know each other. I dont even know his kids. I met his 7 yr old son because his son "wont tell mommy he met me." I asked him and his three kids out to dinner with me and my two for sweetest day and all i got was an ill call you back. he actually talked to his kids to find out if his two girls would tell and they said maybe by accident so he refused my offer. Should I just be more patient or can i say something like I have been thinking we need a little time apart because i am getting closer then i would like while i am living in your exwife's shadows. or something like that. would you even waste your time? would you be patient?
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