He rejected me but we hooked up?

[Sony12]

Uni students are Christian school students right? Generally speaking what's the policy about dating at those schools? 

[glows]

4 minutes ago, RennerReiner said:

the girl ignored him and gave hima hateful look but he was okay with it and later on she told him about her struggles of how her grandma died and her job interviews, and he was like think for yourself, don't let them mistreat you, go home and take the day off and tell the office and interviewers that there has been a loss in the family and you want to reschedule or take the day off

I mean.. you’re just cutting and pasting responses at this point. I did read the thread. Sadly he hasn’t said anything personal at all about himself. He seems compassionate and is offering counselling for someone who is grieving: He’s not interested in talking about himself. 

[RennerReiner]

Just now, glows said:

I mean.. you’re just cutting and pasting responses at this point. I did read the thread. Sadly he hasn’t said anything personal at all about himself. He seems compassionate and is offering counselling for someone who is grieving: He’s not interested in talking about himself. 

I meant by saying these things to her does he like her or not?

[Wiseman2]

2 hours ago, RennerReiner said:

Yes I'm the female friend.

So you get upset when he acts appropriately affectionate and preferential toward his GF because you're obsessed with him? 

[RennerReiner]

1 hour ago, Wiseman2 said:

So you get upset when he acts appropriately affectionate and preferential toward his GF because you're obsessed with him? 

How is he affectionate in this case?

[LynneVicious]

19 hours ago, RennerReiner said:

We aren't dating. I like him. But I'm concerned why he won't dump the other girl and gas now re-added her?

But he doesn’t like you back. You shouldn’t be concerned about who he dumps and who he speaks with. 

You really need to let this go. It’s not healthy. Cease all contact with him and keep yourself busy - go out with friends, date men, find a hobby etc. 

[NuevoYorko]

What is going on between him and the other women is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS.

If you want to know what is going on between you and him, ASK HIM.

Can you stop asking the same things over and over now please?

[RennerReiner]

25 minutes ago, NuevoYorko said:

What is going on between him and the other women is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS.

If you want to know what is going on between you and him, ASK HIM.

Can you stop asking the same things over and over now please?

It is my business.

[Wiseman2]

23 hours ago, RennerReiner said:

I ve seen them together multiple times. 

Are you the friend or the other girl? How old is he, how old are you and how old is the girl you're jealous of (whoever is not you in this scenario)?

[RennerReiner]

2 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

Are you the friend or the other girl? How old is he, how old are you and how old is the girl you're jealous of (whoever is not you in this scenario)?

I already told you but you don't even answer

He's 27

I'm 21

Other girl is 31

[Sony12]

3 minutes ago, RennerReiner said:

I already told you but you don't even answer

He's 27

I'm 21

Other girl is 31

Wait wait wait. On page 2 you said you were 29.

[RennerReiner]

16 minutes ago, Sony12 said:

Wait wait wait. On page 2 you said you were 29.

Well I'm actually the female friend 

[Sony12]

11 minutes ago, RennerReiner said:

Well I'm actually the female friend 

I'm confused now 

[NuevoYorko]

57 minutes ago, Sony12 said:

Wait wait wait. On page 2 you said you were 29.

She is aging  quickly.

[NuevoYorko]

40 minutes ago, RennerReiner said:

Well I'm actually the female friend 

Why are you wasting people's time like this?  

THE GUY DOES NOT WANT TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP OF ANY KIND WITH YOU.  It doesn't matter if your name is Merril or Renner, whether you're at work or university, whether you are 15, 29, 31 or 75, whether you are the "FWB" or the one he supposedly likes.  

Did this help?

[Wiseman2]

8 hours ago, RennerReiner said:

29

So you are the older female friend, but posing as someone else? Who is the GF? The 21 year old or the 31 year old?

[Lilyfleur]

I recently broke up with my bf because I was interested in another guy. I think he likes me too as we have quite a lot of sexual tension and flirting but I have noticed him with other friends and I don't really like their interactions.

There is a girl he has been friends with since 2018 and she was his close guy friends girlfriend. But they broke up.  However, he seems way too close with this girl. She keeps throwing herself at him to hug him and tries to touch his hand, hold his hand. She was even touching his hair, telling him how rough his hair looks. He's mostly just patting her on her shoulder but I have noticed her staring at him a lot while talking. She keeps introducing him to her friends, inviting him to events and constantly messaging him.

I think she tried to tell him that she wanted more but he started to get distant from her and getting angry at her when she tried to tell him. My friend who works with him at the cafe (part time) saw them and witnessed their conversation.

But even after this, she's still messaging him, trying to hold his hand, hugging him etc.

He also seems to have only female friends because he keeps a public calender next to my desk and each person he writes down for meet up is a girl.  I also saw a picture of him on a couch with another girl and their legs very touching each other.

I find it very uncomfortable that he seems to encourage these women to touch him and seemingly has no boundaries with women whatsoever.

However, with me, he is different. Initially, he would hug but I declined to have casual sex and he stopped hugging or touching me. He acts reserved and stoic with me whereas with other women he is laughing, talking etc. 

I dont know if I should pursue this guy or he's just a player who is insecure about his short frame (5.5) and needs to surround himself with women to feel better about himself.

He also said that he's distant in relationships and detached even though when I propose to cut all communication with him, he protested and had a meltdown that we couldn't stop talking.

What should I do?
 

[Wiseman2]

27 minutes ago, Lilyfleur said:

.There is a girl he has been friends with since 2018. He's mostly just patting her on her shoulder but I have noticed her staring at him a lot while talking. 

How long have you been dating?

Is this the same man?

 

[shellzbellz83]

How many times are you going to post this under different names? He is not interested in you... same answer as the last 4 threads. 

[Lilyfleur]

1 hour ago, shellzbellz83 said:

How many times are you going to post this under different names? He is not interested in you... same answer as the last 4 threads. 

Did you even reply to my question?

[introverted1]

Give it up already - he is not interested in you.  If he was, you'd know and you would need to continually make new threads under fake usernames.