He rejected me but we hooked up?

[RennerReiner]

5 hours ago, Wiseman2 said:

Does he ever wear the same colors you wear?

No. 

[mtnbiker3000]

This whole thread makes no sense?!?!

[RennerReiner]

8 hours ago, basil67 said:

If you're bothered that he's talking with her, then don't ask him out.  If you're not bothered, then go ahead

Why doesnt he leave her tho?

[RennerReiner]

54 minutes ago, NuevoYorko said:

Seriously:  This guy's  interactions and relationships with other people are NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. 

Okay, you like him.  Your business is confined to YOUR interactions with him.  Be aware that there is no guarantee that he likes you back.  In your posts there are not any mentions of the two of you having anything going on whatsoever.   So, you might be disappointed.

He isn't going out with me because of the other girl. He's probably keeping all women on hold because of her.

[LynneVicious]

10 minutes ago, RennerReiner said:

He isn't going out with me because of the other girl. He's probably keeping all women on hold because of her.

And?

Op, what’s your exact question? Is this just going to keep going around in circles?

NO ONE knows what he is thinking or how he feels. It’s pointless to try and figure that out. 

It does sound like he doesn’t like you back. So it doesn’t matter what she’s doing. Or him. 

[RennerReiner]

4 minutes ago, LynneVicious said:

And?

Op, what’s your exact question? Is this just going to keep going around in circles?

NO ONE knows what he is thinking or how he feels. It’s pointless to try and figure that out. 

It does sound like he doesn’t like you back. So it doesn’t matter what she’s doing. Or him. 

Do you think he likes the other girl?

[JTSW]

18 hours ago, RennerReiner said:

Then why did he agree to go out for drinks? I called him outside of the room to ask if he would like to join me and my friends and he said yes and came along until she texted him something and he abruptly left looking all stressed 

He accepted a friendly invitation to join a group of people for drinks.

That does NOT mean he is interested in you.

[JTSW]

15 hours ago, RennerReiner said:

Potential love interests

judging by the rest of your posts about this guy, you seem very delusional.

He has no interest in you romantically.

[JTSW]

11 hours ago, RennerReiner said:

What does this mean?

It means you are not even on his radar.

What he does with these other girls is none of your business.

3 hours ago, RennerReiner said:

Why doesnt he leave her tho?

Again, it's nothing to do with you.

Leave him alone and get on with your own life.

[RennerReiner]

26 minutes ago, JTSW said:

It means you are not even on his radar.

What he does with these other girls is none of your business.

Again, it's nothing to do with you.

Leave him alone and get on with your own life.

Does he like the friend or the other girl?

[JTSW]

3 minutes ago, RennerReiner said:

Does he like the friend or the other girl?

Does it matter?

It's nothing to do with you.

[RennerReiner]

57 minutes ago, JTSW said:

Does it matter?

It's nothing to do with you.

It does so pls tell

[JTSW]

18 minutes ago, RennerReiner said:

It does so pls tell

Why does it matter to you if he likes the other girl?

He doesn't like you, that's all you need to know.

[Wiseman2]

1 hour ago, RennerReiner said:

Does he like the friend or the other girl?

He seems to like the other girl.

[RennerReiner]

2 hours ago, Wiseman2 said:

He seems to like the other girl.

But he's touching and being cosy with the female friend ?

[Sony12]

2 minutes ago, RennerReiner said:

But he's touching and being cosy with the female friend ?

How old are you. 

[RennerReiner]

2 hours ago, Wiseman2 said:

He seems to like the other girl.

the girl ignored him and gave hima hateful look but he was okay with it and later on she told him about her struggles of how her grandma died and her job interviews, and he was like think for yourself, don't let them mistreat you, go home and take the day off and tell the office and interviewers that there has been a loss in the family and you want to reschedule or take the day off

[RennerReiner]

Just now, Sony12 said:

How old are you. 

29

[Wiseman2]

4 minutes ago, RennerReiner said:

But he's touching and being cosy with the female friend ?

Are you the female friend? Which one do you hope he likes better? 

[RennerReiner]

5 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

Are you the female friend? Which one do you hope he likes better? 

Yes I'm the female friend.

I dont know. 

Can you tell?

[Sony12]

37 minutes ago, RennerReiner said:

29

29? Can I ask is this story real or just something you are making up? You mentioned classmates and I believe you mentioned a teacher as well one time making it sound like all this was taking place in school. Doesn't completely add up if you are nearing 30.

Sure adults go to school as well but generally adult classes are just adults going to class and then going home to their regular lives again. They don't get into all this school drama.

[RennerReiner]

1 minute ago, Sony12 said:

29? Can I ask is this story real or just something you are making up? You mentioned classmates and I believe you mentioned a teacher as well one time making it sound like all this was taking place in school. Doesn't completely add up if you are nearing 30.

Sure adults go to school as well but generally adult classes are just adults going to class and then going home to their regular lives again. They don't get into all this school drama.

This is a real situation. We are uni students 

Edited July 5, 2023 by RennerReiner

[Weezy1973]

33 minutes ago, RennerReiner said:

Yes I'm the female friend.

I dont know. 

Can you tell?

Can you organize your thoughts better? What do you want with this guy? If you’re interested in him, romantically, let him know and then accept the outcome whatever that is.

[glows]

When someone isn’t open about their private life or love life it means you’re not invited into that realm. You have to learn to read betw the lines better. He isn’t going to spell it out for you who he likes if it’s not you and if it’s you and he doesn’t want you to know that’s also his private business. 

The bottomline is he is not asking you out. At 29 someone is old enough to know who they want to pursue and how to date. He’s not doing that with you which means he’s not interested. I’m sorry to say this. Asking about his personal life or trying to get closer is like squeezing water from a rock because he doesn’t feel the same way about you. It would not be this hard if someone is open and available to date.

[RennerReiner]

1 minute ago, glows said:

When someone isn’t open about their private life or love life it means you’re not invited into that realm. You have to learn to read betw the lines better. He isn’t going to spell it out for you who he likes if it’s not you and if it’s you and he doesn’t want you to know that’s also his private business. 

The bottomline is he is not asking you out. At 29 someone is old enough to know who they want to pursue and how to date. He’s not doing that with you which means he’s not interested. I’m sorry to say this. Asking about his personal life or trying to get closer is like squeezing water from a rock because he doesn’t feel the same way about you. It would not be this hard if someone is open and available to date.

the girl ignored him and gave hima hateful look but he was okay with it and later on she told him about her struggles of how her grandma died and her job interviews, and he was like think for yourself, don't let them mistreat you, go home and take the day off and tell the office and interviewers that there has been a loss in the family and you want to reschedule or take the day off