Blind-Sided Posted April 27, 2023 Posted April 27, 2023 OK.... everyone is different. There are people who say guys can't be friends with girls because they just stick around for the potential sex. While this is probably true for some men... there are some who see the value in female friends. I'm here to say... I am one of those guys. Let me start by saying... I have plenty of guy friends also. But, I have at least 7 female friends who I talk to all the time. They are absolutely great to have a round. When I'm feeling down... I reach out, and they are there for me. When they are having guy issues... I can fill them in on what their guy is thinking. After my divorce... they helped me find someone new... and when that new GF cheated and broke my heart... I was at one of their houses at 8am crying, and their husband made me breakfast. in friends... the opposite sex is just more compassionate. With the exW... she didn't seam to care. Many of these girls were old friends from collage, and were "Common" friends to both of us. There has been an old GF who has come back into the picture. While I don't know exactly what that relationship is with her.... she has commented about my friends as my Harem. LOL But she also realizes that some of those friends go back +24 years now. I do understand her concern... but I don't hide them from her either. I honestly think that is the key. If he was hiding these girls from you... and you found out about them... that would be bad. If he is open about them... I wouldn't worry. Oh... I do have one funny story. a few weeks ago... I was home alone and I got a call to come out to "Girls Night". (How could I resist) I wound up at a bar where they were having vibrator races to rase money for a charity. It was a great night... I felt loved... and no... none of my female friends came home with me. I know sometimes trust is hard... but sometimes you have to have faith in someone you care for.
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