Prim&proper Posted November 6, 2005 Posted November 6, 2005 You guys probably remember my story. I was seeing this guy for 4 1/2 months and he refused to be exclusive with me though he says he wasn't seeing anyone else. Well, I didn't feel right about the answers he was giving me so I went onto this website (not a dating site but people use it as such sometimes) and created a fake profile and emailed him asking him out. Well, he bit and went to meet this fake gal and I confessed that it was me. He was really upset by it and we got a discussion about it. Since then I have not heard from him and it's been 2 weeks. I know I should move on but i can't seem to. I left him a message for him on his birthday wishing him a happy birthday but I have not heard from him. I know it's over but i really want to talk to him to discuss this. I think I want to talk to him because I want to see him again. What do you guys think? Should I just let it be and keep reminding myself that it's over? I just can't do it because it just sort of ended without any closure. What should I do?
rick812 Posted November 6, 2005 Posted November 6, 2005 First of all, this is someone you don't want to be involved with. It's better you found out after only a few months than a few years. A very similar thing happened to a good friend of mine. I think the reason you have not heard from him is because he got caught and does not want to deal with the consequences. But I am also someone who needs closure in order to move on. If you keep calling him, he will just continue not answering his phone. You could try e-mailing to let him know exactly where you are coming from and see if he responds. I also think that because you do miss him, seeeing him right now would not be a good idea. You might do something you will regret.
Outcast Posted November 6, 2005 Posted November 6, 2005 Leave it alone. Get 'closure' by writing him a letter. Then seal it in an envelope and put it away.
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