Ruff Ryder Posted November 5, 2005 Posted November 5, 2005 Hi all, I have just come out of a serious relantionship (was engaged and the girl was living with me) Thats percides the point. Ive been seeing a girl fo about a month and last night as i was leaving her house she gave me a kiss and a hug then wisperd in my ear I LOVE YOU.... Now im a bit screwd on this on because i do have feelings for her but i wouldnt say its love. It could possibly turn into it but right now its not. I dont want to tell her i love her just incase it turns out that we dont work. But i dont want to sit there with a stupid look on my face when she says it agian. Because last night i wasd stumed when she said it. So what do you say back? What would sound right but not be that serious? Any advise would be much appreciated.
downcydeguy Posted November 5, 2005 Posted November 5, 2005 Simply explain to her that you completely appreciate her feelings for you but you're taking things slowly due to your recent heartbreak. Let her know that you really like her but don't think it's fair to say you love her right now. She'll accept that unless she's psycho and/or desperate!
westernxer Posted November 5, 2005 Posted November 5, 2005 When she says "I love you," just say "I know." Han Solo said this in "Empire Strikes Back."
Treasa Posted November 5, 2005 Posted November 5, 2005 When she says "I love you," just say "I know." Han Solo said this in "Empire Strikes Back." Agreed! But then, I'm a Star Wars geek.
Sloppy Posted November 5, 2005 Posted November 5, 2005 When she says "I love you," just say "I know." Seriously?! I think I would be offended by that answer, or at least hurt. But maybe it's just because I have never seen any of the StarWar movies I agree with downcydeguy, eventhough I'm trying to picture the converstation in my head:lmao: . These kinds of talk always suck...for both parties involved.
konfuzd Posted November 5, 2005 Posted November 5, 2005 I definately wouldn't bring up the ex as a reason you can't say it. That may make $hit hit the fan. I just think you should tell her that you want to be absolutely sure before you say it, because it means a lot to you, and a month really isn't a long time... Right now, it's most likely lust rather than love. Good luck!
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