softiesoftie88 Posted March 20, 2023 Posted March 20, 2023 We split up because I wasn't getting any space, he kept leaving his s*** everywhere (he didn't live with me), rubbish and clothes all over floor. He demanded attention too much. At the beginning he wouldn't let it go either, he called me a coward for not giving him a chance (I didn't feel ready) and he was messaging another woman at the same time the last week together was horrible when I tried telling I'm too tired to do anything because I have low iron and exhausted after work (new job). He didn't want to listen. It was my fault and I'm unbelievable. So I ended it. We both said things, he said some nasty things. Now since then I blocked him on everything and he's been emailing every day for 3 weeks. He wants another chance, "he can't believe how cruel I'm being" because he's in love with me and I'm not answering. He wants another chance he'll do anything. He's sorry. I don't know what to do. I just can't be bothered with treating me this way. I told him this. He's had 2 chances already. I can't deal with him right now. He's too needy. Do I warn him I'll get a restraining order or what? Please. My family loves him and they got on well. And he tries to say that he is really good with my daughter to try to persuade me.
Ray_xx Posted March 20, 2023 Posted March 20, 2023 He's a freak - get the police. Men do not act this way unless they are on drugs, control freaks with a history of trauma or they are alcoholics. Keep well away
Author softiesoftie88 Posted March 20, 2023 Author Posted March 20, 2023 He does creep me out. Must be a control freak definitely.
Author softiesoftie88 Posted March 20, 2023 Author Posted March 20, 2023 Oh my god!!! I just told him I no longer want him or to be in contact and he said he wants some money back from me then. I'm in shock!!
Ray_xx Posted March 20, 2023 Posted March 20, 2023 2 minutes ago, softiesoftie88 said: Oh my god!!! I just told him I no longer want him or to be in contact and he said he wants some money back from me then. I'm in shock!! Tell him if he contacts you again, you will contact the police with immediate effect
Ray_xx Posted March 20, 2023 Posted March 20, 2023 1 minute ago, softiesoftie88 said: I have done x x
ShyViolet Posted March 20, 2023 Posted March 20, 2023 1 hour ago, softiesoftie88 said: My family loves him and they got on well. And he tries to say that he is really good with my daughter to try to persuade me. It's disturbing that your family is not supporting you when this guy is stalking and harassing you. You need to let them know that this is unacceptable and they are just making it worse by doing this.
ExpatInItaly Posted March 21, 2023 Posted March 21, 2023 14 hours ago, softiesoftie88 said: My family loves him and they got on well Are they unaware of how unhinged he is? Or did you conceal a lot of this from them to protect him? 14 hours ago, softiesoftie88 said: Do I warn him I'll get a restraining order or what? Yes. And be prepared to follow through if he doesn't stop.
JTSW Posted March 21, 2023 Posted March 21, 2023 Why do you create a new account for each new post? As for him, never respond to anything. Don't even acknowledge his money comment because he's just trying to get at you. Block everywhere he attempts to contact you. He'll soon get the hint. 1
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