tyla2 Posted March 15, 2023 Posted March 15, 2023 Long story short, my ex- husband and I started dating in Jr High School at 14 years old. We had 2 children together and were married by the age of 20. He got himself into some serious trouble about a year after we married and went to prison for many years. I was heart broken. I filed for divorce, and that was the end of it. Our 2 children are now adults. They know of him, have spoken to him briefly a few times through the years but want nothing to do with him. Our youngest child just had a baby of his own a few months ago. Now all of the sudden, I cannot stop thinking of my ex husband. I moved on with my life long ago but why cant I stop thinking of my ex now?
Wiseman2 Posted March 16, 2023 Posted March 16, 2023 1 hour ago, tyla2 said: Our youngest child just had a baby of his own a few months ago. Sorry this happened. A new addition to the family can bring up all sorts of mixed feelings. Focus on your children and grandchildren. Leave the past in the past.
JTSW Posted March 16, 2023 Posted March 16, 2023 13 hours ago, tyla2 said: why cant I stop thinking of my ex now? Because he's the father of your children and grandfather to the new baby. You're thinking about him as he has become a new grandparent the same as you. But he doesn't know. What is his situation these days? Will you tell him about his grandchild?
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