JTSW Posted March 7, 2023 Posted March 7, 2023 13 minutes ago, speca3 said: Hmm… if i asked her that would she get the hint? Very possibly. Follow it up by asking if she wants to get a drink after work.
stju3006 Posted March 7, 2023 Posted March 7, 2023 You have one life to live. If you don't take a chance, you will never know whether she likes you or not. Take a chance, you have nothing to lose but more so to gain to see if she has any feelings for you. 2
Author speca3 Posted March 7, 2023 Author Posted March 7, 2023 3 hours ago, JTSW said: Very possibly. Follow it up by asking if she wants to get a drink after work. I dont drink, but i could go somewhere else.
Author speca3 Posted March 7, 2023 Author Posted March 7, 2023 3 hours ago, stju3006 said: You have one life to live. If you don't take a chance, you will never know whether she likes you or not. Take a chance, you have nothing to lose but more so to gain to see if she has any feelings for you. Thats the scary part, not knowing whether she likes me back or not. I cant risk it because of the workplace. I dont know why i keep overthinking when it comes to girls. Not the first time.
Author speca3 Posted March 9, 2023 Author Posted March 9, 2023 So i have an update. I asked my coworker again about her and he told me that she has a boyfriend. I was a bit taken aback and told him the situation and he told me that her current bf is “casual” and nothing serious is going on between them. He told me that she could genuinely like you, and would probably leave her bf for me if she is pursuing me. I told him that it doesn’t matter since she is cheating on her bf. i thought about it at home and decided to keep distance from her. I eat my lunch 20 minutes before the break so i can avoid her. She probably got the hint that I’m avoiding her because she stopped talking to me now. Its sad but it’s better finding all of her stuff out sooner than later.
SafeBubble Posted March 10, 2023 Posted March 10, 2023 I would say she definatley likes you. And asking why you are nervous because she wants you to feel comfortable around her.
Author speca3 Posted March 11, 2023 Author Posted March 11, 2023 8 hours ago, SafeBubble said: I would say she definatley likes you. And asking why you are nervous because she wants you to feel comfortable around her. I dont think it matters anymore. Even if she likes me i dont think she is someone to be in a relationship with.
Wiseman2 Posted March 11, 2023 Posted March 11, 2023 3 hours ago, speca3 said: . Even if she likes me i dont think she is someone to be in a relationship with. This is a good way to look at it. She's a coworker and in a relationship, so it's not worthwhile to pursue this. Hopefully you have a good profile and pics on quality dating apps and are talking to and meeting women.
Author speca3 Posted March 11, 2023 Author Posted March 11, 2023 7 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: This is a good way to look at it. She's a coworker and in a relationship, so it's not worthwhile to pursue this. Hopefully you have a good profile and pics on quality dating apps and are talking to and meeting women. I’m not sure why people in relationships do stuff like that. Why touch others when you already have a partner? i dont use dating apps btw.
flow28 Posted March 20, 2023 Posted March 20, 2023 It sounds like she's interested. As to how she can tell, we women notice certain physical and verbal cues of nervousness. We can subconsciously sense that someone likely has a crush on us, from your body language and demeanor. That touch was a pretty forward move to make. Just go for it.
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