just_a_sprinkle_of_sayge Posted March 1, 2023 Posted March 1, 2023 So , i have this crush on this guy hes been hot and cold and giving me a lot of mixed signals like he tells me all the time that im pretty and he always gives me hugs and he puts his arm around me and stuff but whenever i had feelings for him and i asked him out he said this exactly ´ ' I will think about it ´´ So im so confused right now like does he like me or ? does he just like attention ?
NuevoYorko Posted March 1, 2023 Posted March 1, 2023 Do you want to date him? He apparently does not want to date you. So does it really matter what's going on in his head? I think not. He's not dating material for you. If he comes around and invites you on a date (don't try again, you did your part) then you can decide whether you're still interested. 1
basil67 Posted March 1, 2023 Posted March 1, 2023 (edited) In your last post you said that you were 15, so I'm working on the theory that he's a similar age to you. Chances are that he's kind and flattering, but he's just not hot for you. Edited March 1, 2023 by basil67 1
Ami1uwant Posted March 2, 2023 Posted March 2, 2023 If you are under 18 …he doesn’t understand what anything is. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted March 2, 2023 Posted March 2, 2023 7 hours ago, just_a_sprinkle_of_sayge said: does he just like attention ? This. I would stop any close contact with him. You will get hurt otherwise. 1
glows Posted March 2, 2023 Posted March 2, 2023 If he’s really into you he’s probably not going to be so out there and forward and gushy with the compliments. He’ll be ultra self-conscious and wondering what you think. Does he ever express any interest in you? As in you. Your thoughts, ideas. Not touching your body or focusing on your looks. Seems a bit rude to be flinging himself on you too when he knows how you feel and all he can come up with is a lame “I’ll think about it.” I know you have the love goggles on but gurl. Come on. Are there any other hot guys around?
JTSW Posted March 2, 2023 Posted March 2, 2023 12 hours ago, just_a_sprinkle_of_sayge said: ' I will think about it ´ You're both teens so this means no. I remember the same happening to me when I was this age in high school. Really liked this boy who would do what this guy does with you, I would ask him out but he would always say 'I'll think about it'. It never happened.
Author just_a_sprinkle_of_sayge Posted March 2, 2023 Author Posted March 2, 2023 I have been thinking about all the new comments , he replied to me last night and he said that i caught him off guard and that he wasn't sure what to say and that he would like to go out with me . But i keep on thinking about do i want to go out with a guy that has to ´´think about it ´´ . I want to date somebody that wants to date me as much as i want to date him
JTSW Posted March 2, 2023 Posted March 2, 2023 How did you catch him off guard? By the way your post is worded it sounds like he'd known how you felt for a while because you asked him out on more than one occasion. 1
Wiseman2 Posted March 2, 2023 Posted March 2, 2023 1 minute ago, just_a_sprinkle_of_sayge said: I want to date somebody that wants to date me as much as i want to date him Try to socialize with other boys at school. Join some groups and clubs, get involved in sports and after school activities. This way you can get to know a lot of people and feel better when a guy asks you out rather than rejecting your advances . Maybe he's just a flirt but he's not asking you out and not accepting your invitations, so it's best to step back and start talking to others.
Author just_a_sprinkle_of_sayge Posted March 2, 2023 Author Posted March 2, 2023 Just now, JTSW said: How did you catch him off guard? By the way your post is worded it sounds like he'd known how you felt for a while because you asked him out on more than one occasion. Well , this was the first time that i asked him out . I have only known him for a few month's . ´´His exact words were I did not think a girl like you would like to go out with me ´´ and then he continued saying that he thought i was joking at first but then he gathered that it was not joke and he said he had no clue what do do because he has never been confessed to by anyone .
JTSW Posted March 2, 2023 Posted March 2, 2023 13 minutes ago, just_a_sprinkle_of_sayge said: Well , this was the first time that i asked him out . I have only known him for a few month's . ´´His exact words were I did not think a girl like you would like to go out with me ´´ and then he continued saying that he thought i was joking at first but then he gathered that it was not joke and he said he had no clue what do do because he has never been confessed to by anyone . Ok, sounds fair enough. It's up to you if you want to give him a chance.
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