ZA Dater Posted March 24, 2023 Posted March 24, 2023 I think the really interesting thing is the the gulf between attention dating sites versus attention on hook up sites. What sort of guy are you actually looking, do you have qualities you like? What do you find attractive. Surely there must be some overlap between a guy you will hook up with versus one you will date? Personally I think dating apps are a lot of rubbish and as usual the "well you may be looking at guys more attractive", well in this respect I agree with you, you are either attracted or you are not. I get you get bored of dates, heck anyone would if you are not attracted. Figure out what you really find attractive and work from that. You need to have some idea because if you do not then this is an impossible search. If you getting guys to hookup with clearly you are attractive and maybe use that as a basis, have some self belief. It would be a different matter if you never met anyone you found attractive.
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