mercedes Posted November 4, 2005 Posted November 4, 2005 I'll try to make this short...Been dating this guy for 7 months. Get along wonderfully. Only 2 tiffs (fights). See each other almost everyday. Can't stay away from each other. We have great chemistry. He says he loves me. He says "your are the love of my life" to me. Met his mom and she adores me. Has mentioned a few times that I'm like his little wife because I help him around the house. Dilemma, I said something the other day that I shouldn't have about my past while we were watching a show on bad relationships. Stupid me opened my big mouth and he got mad he said he would never marry me. He said he got burned before and won't get hurt again. I said, how can you say that you won't ever marry me? I told him I would never hurt him.He said that is what they said (his past relationships). I don't know what to do. Did I ruin my future chance of possibly marrying him? I do alot for him to show how much I love him. Maybe I should just be patient and not rush things. After the tiff, he's fine and wants to forget about it and just continue our relationship. It bothers me in the back of my mind because I really like this guy and if he doesn't want to marry me one day then am I being set up for a heartbreak? Should I or shouldn't I move on?
Peter the second Posted November 5, 2005 Posted November 5, 2005 Hello mercedes, You ALWAYS should be moving on. With or without him. But since you say you love him you should be moving on together. So the thing is you said something that scared him. I don't know exactly what you said but I asume it has something to do with a 'mistake' you made in the past. And he is afraid that it will happen to him too. If one thing is hard to do is trying to convince scared people by telling them there is nothing to be afraid of. The only thing you can do is SHOW him that there is nothing to be afraid of. By living your life without any aspect of that 'mistake' you made in the past. That way you can slowly win his trust and if everything goes well you might up ending being happily married! I wish you well.
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