crazyand confused Posted November 4, 2005 Posted November 4, 2005 I have went on several dates with this guy. I am thinking this weekend is the weekend he will try to have sex. I want to but it is that time of the month. How to I tell him so he doenst think I am not interested in having sex with him?
IhavenoFREAKINclue Posted November 4, 2005 Posted November 4, 2005 Well if you haven't had sex yet, acting like your not going to won't be out of the norm. What makes you think this is the weekend? Plus if things start getting heavy....Just go down on him. He won't even be thinking of sex
Tangerina Posted November 4, 2005 Posted November 4, 2005 If it really is for real the weekend that you both want to do it then just tell him that it is "that time" and if you both still want to do it then put down some towels and go for it. If you are on terms where you both feel comfortable having sex, then it shouldn't be a big deal to be like "hey, I'm bleedin!" However, the language you use "this is the weekend he will try to have sex" makes it sound like you might not even be that invested in the idea yet, like the sex thing might be kinda one sided... maybe you want to wait longer anyways? or do you just not like doing it at "that time"... how does he feel about the idea? In direct response to your last question, you could just say "hi, I am interested in having sex with you but lets wait a week cuz I'm bleeding..." I mean, that really gets the point accross, he should understand....anticipation is cool, too, cuz he will know what is waiting for him next week....
WRbeach60954 Posted November 4, 2005 Posted November 4, 2005 I would just tell him if he tried anything, make him look forward to next week.
Walk Posted November 4, 2005 Posted November 4, 2005 This is how I would handle it... Unless he specifically said he wants to have sex with you that weekend, then just play it normal. There's no guarantee anything will happen, or that it's what he's planning. If you get to the point where things are obviously leading to that point. He's groping you and you're into it. Then there shouldn't be anything wrong with saying at some point, "I just want to let you know that I'm on my period, and if you don't mind then I don't." If you do mind... then just say, "Listen, I'm on my period and I'd really like to wait to have sex with you until next weekend." Then ask him how he feels about it. And if you're not comfortable bringing it up when you're alone with him, then maybe it's not quite time to be intimate anyway. Maybe you need a little more time to get comfortable with him first. And you need to tell him that.
whichwayisup Posted November 4, 2005 Posted November 4, 2005 When you two are together and he starts getting hot and heavy, just say it's that time of the month. Don't make a big deal about it. Mention that when you're done you'd absolutely LOVE to have sex with him.
Author crazyand confused Posted November 8, 2005 Author Posted November 8, 2005 Thanks for all the insight. We did end up getting hot and heavy. I just took the advise to tell him that it was that time and if he didnt mind neither did I. Everything was great. He didnt mind and it was great.
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