Saidar Posted November 4, 2005 Posted November 4, 2005 Hi, I'm really confused here... I'm 17, and I like this girl who is also 17. I read the threat about 9 signs that she is not into you... well... the only one that shows she's not into is nr1. She's not ready for dating.... Well I want to ask something else... Whenever I get into close contact with her, like a hug etc, she acts like a fool. The first time I gave her a hug, she reacted SO stoopid, she looked shocked and quickly hugged me and "playfully" (actually childish) acted like she was crying on my shoulder... Very weird. She does things like that a lot, is she a bit shy of me or what ?? She also finds it very difficult to talk to me, but has no difficulty talking to her male friends. What's up with her ??
SMHappyface Posted November 4, 2005 Posted November 4, 2005 You both are very young. She most likely is very insecure and doesn't know how to react. I still get flustered sometimes and I'm 24! I remember when I was 15, this guy I liked gave me a hug and I acted like a total retard and talked about it for weeks. Calm down and don't read so much into it - there will be plenty of time for you and her or you and other girls to 'learn the ropes' of inter-sexual communication/relationships. Hehehe.
whichwayisup Posted November 4, 2005 Posted November 4, 2005 She's not comfy with physical contact...Hugging, holding hands. Maybe she isn't a touchy feely person. Either way, if you want to know if she is into you, just come right out and ask her!
glittergurl Posted November 5, 2005 Posted November 5, 2005 LOL I hate when those tard moments happen. And let me tell you, they happened quite a few times when I was 15. So glad I'm over with that phase; it really takes some self confidence and self control. She's young, and probably a little insecure. Don't worry about it. She'll grow up and stop acting retarded. (eventually )
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