John Charles Posted November 4, 2005 Posted November 4, 2005 ok this girl says she doesnt want a boyfriend, but she doesnt want me going after any other girls. i feel the same. but, i dont want to be just friends. and when i mention friends with benefits she says no it means more than that. i dont know if we re friends or lovers. its making me go crazy. i know she talks to other guys but i talk to other girls. its just that i feel bad about it and she doesnt. i feel like im doing it to prevent me being dependent whereas she has a need to be with other guys. its so annoying, one minute im feeling her clit and then the next she gets emotional and says fine you dont want me then go away. worse im a pscyh major and this stuff is my specialty.... im suppose to walk away, but i find it so hard when the next moment she has her tongue down my throat and her hands down my pants. i told her to be honest with me and then she says she loves me. i say it back. and then the vicious cycle goes on. help.
glittergurl Posted November 4, 2005 Posted November 4, 2005 Pffffttt She sounds like a serious waste of time and energy.
Walk Posted November 4, 2005 Posted November 4, 2005 I completely did not understand that entire thing you just wrote. All I got out of it was she wants you all to herself, but only when she wants you, and you better make sure your available. And she can have dates, and screw other guys, and only come around when she's bored to play with you for a while. Is that about the gist of it? One part of me is like "Go Girl!". And the other part is so sadly disappointed in the female gender, and feel as if she needs taken out before she irreparably harms the reputation of women every where. "Go girl!" "Slut" "Go girl!" "Slut" ... HA HA HA HA
Walk Posted November 4, 2005 Posted November 4, 2005 Glittergurl - that word would describe her very well, I think.
whichwayisup Posted November 4, 2005 Posted November 4, 2005 She wants you to like her ONLY, yet she doesn't want to be with you. She sounds like she has a huge ego and has some control issues. OR.... She DOES like you, but isn't ready for a long term relationship, but could feel like it "someday" so she wants you to wait and wait and wait ...Then wait abit more before she makes a choice. Hello, this is called s*** or get off the pot.
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