kdiver Posted November 3, 2005 Posted November 3, 2005 I have a six month old baby at home anf three weeks ago my husband walked out. He said that there was no one else, just friends. Today I find out thaht he is sleeping with someone else and he said that he will break it off tonight. I don't know what to do, I love him so much and want our family to work but I do not deserve this. He has put my family thru so much and now my father wont even talk to me. My parents are very close to me and have helped me greatly. I just don't know what the right thing to do is. Do I choose bewteen my husband and my family?
westernxer Posted November 3, 2005 Posted November 3, 2005 Choosing between family that loves you and a husband that cheats on you... hmm, that's a tough one.
Sloppy Posted November 3, 2005 Posted November 3, 2005 western is right. What is there waiting for you if you stay with this guy? Only more pain and betrayal. Reconsile with your family and show your child that people can be good and nice, not just as*holes and cheating/betraying rats. A man who walks out on his W and a child (not to mention a newborn one) is a selfish coward.
backspace Posted November 3, 2005 Posted November 3, 2005 I definitely feel for you...Follow your heart use your head and don't be naieve. Be strong for you and your baby. God bless
brittanyjean259 Posted November 4, 2005 Posted November 4, 2005 "blood is thicker than water"... your family will be there for you uncondionalyy always... your stuck with this guy forever...but that together you dont have to be...im sure you love him but save your self the heartach for if he ever leaves you later on.................
glittergurl Posted November 4, 2005 Posted November 4, 2005 Oh, don't give that piece of scum a chance to dump you. Dump his a$$ right now and get back with your family.
Tristram Posted November 4, 2005 Posted November 4, 2005 I agree. Any man that would cheat on his wife and leave her with a newborn baby isnt a man at all. Your family will always be there. Who knows, maybe one day when he grows up he will beg for your forgiveness and be a father. Until then, make him be responsable with child and spousal support. Believe me, I know it feels terrible. But your responsibility is to the little one you have brought into this world, not a cheating man. Take care, and try not to do anything rash.
whichwayisup Posted November 4, 2005 Posted November 4, 2005 Your husband is selfish and has his priorities screwed up. That's just awful that he did that to you and to his own child. The big part of me wants to tell you to kick him out - But if he wants to make this up to you he MUST get to marriage counselling and work on the marriage. He has to come clean with you and be an open book. I don't know, I feel for what you're going through. You deserve so much better! He's a real jerk for what he did!
lilmoma1973 Posted November 4, 2005 Posted November 4, 2005 Oh, don't give that piece of scum a chance to dump you. Dump his a$$ right now and get back with your family. Totally agree with you kick him to the curb before you become preggo again you already have one kid with him and it is obvious he wants no responsibilty!! He doesn't deserve to be a dad !! Find someone that you deserve and what want want you and your child!!!
jonesgirly Posted November 5, 2005 Posted November 5, 2005 I can't wait till he finds out how much $ child support will cost!
lilmoma1973 Posted November 5, 2005 Posted November 5, 2005 I can't wait till he finds out how much $ child support will cost! Yeah depending on what he makes on his check .. I know someone who has to pay child support and pays for his child 500.00 a paycheck.. So he is theone that has screwed himself .. Move on and find someone better you don't deserve that and nor does your new baby.. Don't let him make you miss out on te wonders of your new child !!! Good luck
jonesgirly Posted November 5, 2005 Posted November 5, 2005 and this guy will have EIGHTEEN YEARS of it!
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