lost99 Posted November 3, 2005 Posted November 3, 2005 I move to California, about a year ago. Reason being my girlfriend/fiance wanted to move out here. About 8 months ago she decided to go her own way, and she wasnt in love with me anymore. The thing is we have a son together. She says that she needs time and she doesnt know how long, but that there is a chance to get back together. She goes on dates and things like that but I cant seem to let her go!!! what do I do?
JohnJohn Posted November 3, 2005 Posted November 3, 2005 She says that she needs time and she doesnt know how long/quote] Buy her a big clock and say here ya go
scobro Posted November 3, 2005 Posted November 3, 2005 but that there is a chance to get back together. Talk about calling the shots,there is a chance when?if she cannot find anyone else and she starts to feel lonely then she will take you back(you should feel flatterred). You start calling the shots dude.So what she is saying is I don't love you anymore thanks for the offspring i am going to date to see if I can find someone better than you and if I can't maybe we will get back...............She's a keeper:sick: Walk far away from her and give her a clock.
Author lost99 Posted November 4, 2005 Author Posted November 4, 2005 I also dont know what to do about my son. I wish I could never see her again, but the fact of the matter is now for the rest of my life I am stuck. What is the best advice about moving on? The bad thing is I am new to this area, so I really dont know anyone.
scobro Posted November 4, 2005 Posted November 4, 2005 i think you should do what you would do if you didn't have a child with her.If that means moving back home do that and make some arrangements for visitation, child support etc.Even if you can only get back every few months it's better than never.Honestly think what is best for you right now.She will get the child if she wants the child, because the courts usually side with the women.
Author lost99 Posted November 4, 2005 Author Posted November 4, 2005 I really do want to move back home. My son is so important to me, and she knows so she uses it to her advantage. when it comes to my son she says jump and I say how high. Sometimes she doesnt let me see him or she changes our arrangement to fit her needs, example if she has a date or any kinds of plans. I feel that she sees me more as a baby sitter. last night I went to pick him up and when he say me he got excited and started running around, well he ran into something so we had to take him to the ER. She blamed it on me because " I got him too excited" what is that sorry my son is happy to see me. I dont know what to do!!!!!!!!!
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