asilisa Posted November 2, 2005 Posted November 2, 2005 My boyfriend and I just broke up on saturday. I am now still in that "hope stage". The problem is that there is another guy who likes me and I like him, I'm just not sure how much. But I like him enough not to use him as a rebound (which I don't wanna do anyway). I care about his feelings, and I feel like he wants to date me now. He calls me every day and wants to hang out. IT is to much pressure and I guess I am to blame because I have told him I like him. Now I am dealing with how to tell him I'm not ready for him or anyone else. Right now I still love my ex, and sadly want him back. I can't tell him that. What do I tell him? Thanks
Art_Critic Posted November 2, 2005 Posted November 2, 2005 I think you should go out with the new guy.. It will help you get over the ex and won't runin any chance if you and your ex decide later on to get back together.. Go out and have fun.. That is what life is for..You can bet your ex wouldn't pass up the chance to go out with someone new..
seachange Posted November 2, 2005 Posted November 2, 2005 hey asi. I skimmed some of your previous posts. Is your recent ex the same guy who cheated on you and broke up with you last year? I agree you should feel free to go out and have fun; you definitely don't owe your ex anything. But I also don't think you need to feel rushed into anything with this new guy. No reason you should have to decide now if he's the next BF-to-be, and if he sees you every day, he probably knows that you just broke up with your BF a few days ago anyway. I'm sure he doesn't want to be a rebound guy. So just tell him exactly what you wrote: I'm not ready for him or anyone else. And like Art said, just hang out and have fun. You don't have to commit to anything right now.
Author asilisa Posted November 2, 2005 Author Posted November 2, 2005 hey asi. I skimmed some of your previous posts. Is your recent ex the same guy who cheated on you and broke up with you last year? Yes it is the same bf, we got back together. This time I broke up with him, but regreted it, but he wouldn't take me back. But this other guy has liked me for a long time, he and I hooked up last time me and my bf broke up. He was hurt last time I went back with the bf. I just don't wanna hurt him again in any other way. Even if I don't go back with the bf, I'm not sure I wanna be with this guy either.
cheesypeas Posted November 6, 2005 Posted November 6, 2005 hmm I would say to avoid it for your own sensibilities. I think that the sex and attention would do you good, but the mixed history would bite you in the ass when you were feeling vulnerable and female and guilty... Buy a good vibrator, lock the door and have a multiple with some good porn. Look fab the next time u see mr temptation and know u can go home alone in control with no repercussions and have a fab orgasm xx:bunny:
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