Spike7165 Posted November 2, 2005 Posted November 2, 2005 Hi All, I am sure this has been discussed many times but I would really appreciate male and female opinions! I have been in an LDR since March, met, were together 4 weeks, seen each other twice since, been apart now 4 weeks. Problem is that in the 4 weeks apart she has had to start working pretty much 24/7, I have tried to be understanding but not talking that much is getting to me. I should say as well her job is let's say, quite social with men. Now I know she loves me, wants to marry me and is waiting for me, but I guess my paranoia is talking when she doesn't answer the phone, reply to emails etc. It is just such a change from when she was not working 24/7 we talked a lot and I am finding it difficult to have this transition when we may only get a couple of minutes or I can't get hold of her. I know she is tired because she sometimes falls asleep on the phone and her life must be so hectic! In summary, I have had a bad couple of days, went into parnaoia overdrive got very upset and found out her phone was knackered and I am sure today it is just business and tiredness. I also know I am being too clingy, too many emails and calls, but I just want to talk to her. I have given her my heart after holding back for 6 months, after being dumped by my wife a year ago and I am scared. I am thinking I should really try and call less, let her come to me. I always said I would never play games but is it a game, am I putting her under pressure when I know she is busy? Guess thats the main thing I need help with, she has always said she loves my emails and wanting her, but maybe it is too much now when she is so busy? Anyway any help appreciated as it is affecting my thoughts and work! Thanks All Spike
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