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How many of you? Im seriously thinking of getting one, not only because of my recent break up, or my birthday, but I wanted one for a long time.

At least itll stay loyal to me.

What do you guys think? I live in a condo, 2 bedroom, thinking of husky. I know maybe too big for the condo, but they're just so pretty.

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I got two fancy rats after my breakup, Harley and Milo... they are well-bred and rare breeds and they are great little guys... deffinitely helped me with my breakup... and now I am with a guy who is also a rodent lover, yay! I know rats are different than dogs, but if you have been wanting to for a while, I say go for it! I wanted these particular rats for a long time and my breakup was the catalyst...

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I have a friend who got a dog, and it has helped him a lot. If you've always wanted one and can take care of it, why not? You might want to think about the type of dog, but, it might not be a bad idea.

 

My pet is wonderful and I look forward to seeing her every day. I have a family, but sometimes you just need the unconditional love...

 

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thanks guys,

 

unconditional love, companionship, even if it is a pet! Obviously I have to do some research about which breed I would get, and look into financial and responsabilities, but I am getting excited about something finally since the break up.

Would love to hear the other opinions too!

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why not go to your local shelter or online and find a dog in need. Private rescues will often know about the dogs personality and if you will be a good match for that specific dog. Check out http://www.petfinder.com

 

Remember puppies grow up quick, need tons of walks, tend to chew and soil the carpet.....why not an older dog that has some training and experience. A husky is not a good choice for an apt unless you can provide tons of exercise, they can tend to have an aloof attitude.

 

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why not go to your local shelter or online and find a dog in need. Private rescues will often know about the dogs personality and if you will be a good match for that specific dog. Check out http://www.petfinder.com

a4a is right on. There are lots of adult, trained dogs at your local shelter.

 

A husky, though, is probably not a good idea, as they are pretty high-energy and need lots of exercise. Up until a year ago I had a lab/newfoundland cross which was a gentle giant; 100 lbs of gentle tempermant and goofiness.

 

Contrary to popular opinion, a small dog is not the best choice for an apartment. They have a tendency to chew things up. A larger breed - or mutt - is probably better because they take so much energy just living that they aren't nearly as hyper.

 

Regardless of what you choose, get the dog neutered. That diminishes any potential aggression and wandering instinct.

 

Good luck!

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I read up about huskys and yeah, seems like I would have to go run about 10 miles every day before the poor thing will ever be tired, or even!

Little dogs may be good when you're in a relationship, since then the girl can take out your chihuahua paris hilton style, but me, single man, dont really want some little applehead in my man-bag :p .

Ill go look for some for adoption, since there is so many on petfinders already!

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I wouldn't have recovered as fast as I have from my recent breakup without my dog. I live alone and having him around has been of tremendous value.

 

He's an English Bulldog, which are perfect for small places like condos. They're pretty expensive though. Basset Hounds are kind of cool too and don't need much exercise. Research some breeds and I am sure you will find the one that best suits your needs.

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Companion animals are great, just make sure that you follow the condo rules regarding pets. There could be size restrictions and etc.

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Good point. Watch out for those HOA Nazis. A condo I lived in previously had a covenant that said dogs could be no taller than 12 inches at the shoulder. I received a citation out of the blue one day in the mail saying my dog was in violation of this rule. I don't know how they knew this as they never physically measured my dog. I was livid and wrote them back stating that they better have proof of this before they make an allegation like that. They backed off immediately.

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Good point. Watch out for those HOA Nazis. A condo I lived in previously had a covenant that said dogs could be no taller than 12 inches at the shoulder. I received a citation out of the blue one day in the mail saying my dog was in violation of this rule. I don't know how they knew this as they never physically measured my dog. I was livid and wrote them back stating that they better have proof of this before they make an allegation like that. They backed off immediately.

 

 

Well, before I was excited, but now after your comment, I went to see the CCR's of those wonderful people. Basically, I cant have a dog that is more than 20 pounds.

Looking at the possibilities, that leaves me with a small breed.

Thanks for saving me a headache with the HOA!!:rolleyes:

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Contrary to popular opinion, a small dog is not the best choice for an apartment.

 

I have two miniature pinschers and yes if you do not have things put away they are fair game for the dogs.My dogs are very destructive if they want to be but I have things put away and blocked off access to the living room in my apartment when I am gone.They have chewed through back surround sound speaker wire(big home theatre buff) garbage and toilet paper since I have been in my new apartment and it's only been a month since I moved in.I got the dogs not my ex:D best thing I did was insist on the dogs they are nothing but joy and do help in the healing:D

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My dogs have totally kept me focused and brought me sheer happiness in the last few weeks of emotional hell.

 

Since you are limited to 20 pounds or less, and are in a condo with limited "run" space, you might find a perfect match in an older dog. They won't chew on stuff, no potty training accidents, polite, sweet, etc.

 

Also, you may want to study up on dog behavior before committing yourself to these wonderful creatures...dogs are pack animals and if you are not there for hours at the time, then they do MUCH better with two of them at home to keep each other company. Just do a google search on dog pack behavior.

 

Best wishes in finding a great companion animal(s) -- they have made my world much better and I am grateful for their unconditional support!!

 

Lori

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