collegegirl83 Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 I met this guy at a bar 4 weeks ago and it was like we had known eachother for years. He said he is normally shy but he felt so comfortable with me only after knowing eachother for a day and I felt the same way. He said that he would definetly be dating me if we were in the same state. We had great conversations and made eachother laugh all night. He kept saying that he was going to call me and that he was not joking because he really liked me. We talk 2 or 3 times a week now and enjoy our conversations. He has said a couple times you have to make a trip here (14 hours away). I asked him when he was going to come visit and he said we'll have to make a plan sometime but he can't anytime soon! We are both busy as college students and working so I know we are both busy but if he was as interested in me wouldn't he make the time to come and visit me? Do you think this guy wants just a long distance friendship or wants a long distance relationship with me? Need some advice!!!!
kgal Posted November 2, 2005 Posted November 2, 2005 "..but if he was as interested in me wouldn't he make the time to come and visit me? " Yes, I think he would. Maybe he's waiting to see where it goes or if he doesn't have to make an effort.. if you're going to do that for him.
Author collegegirl83 Posted November 2, 2005 Author Posted November 2, 2005 He is the one who calls me 2 or 3 times a week to talk so should I let him make the effort to visit me or should I make that effort first?
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