blue16 Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 What's a discrete way for a guy to find out if a girl has a boyfriend, without revealing his interest directly? For example, directly asking "do you have a boyfriend?" can be a pretty obvious statement of interest, IMO.
glittergurl Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 Ask her what she does during weekends and / or holidays. If there's a boyfriend in the picture, she'll obviously be spending time with him, and she'll say so.
Yamaha Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 I agree. Asking her about her weekend will tell you if she has someone.
FataMorgana Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 or even maybe ask her about her time outside work, what she does / likes. same as weekend question, if boyfriend there it will pop up in the reply.
seranade_u_silly Posted November 2, 2005 Posted November 2, 2005 The what you do for fun question is indeed the best way. Another way would be to ask her something about her boyfriend whom you sincerely "assume" exists. This works for me. I usually wait for the girl to say something like "I go out a lot with my girlfriends." I then say something like "really? doesn't your boyfriend mind?"
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