starlett26 Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 Ive been together with my boyfriend for over three years. The past year has been great. We both have been really happy, and we can now talk to eachother about things that bother us. Last sweetest day we had the best weekend! Now i dont know what happend. He hasn't called or answered my calls in four days. He usualy at least calls once a day, if not more, and he always calls me back if i leave a message. Four days ago he had to meet this guy from his work to get some money from him and he said hed call me back after he got home, i havent heard from him since. I was worried, but i just saw his car today( we have a small town here). A year ago this behavior wouldnt have been abnormal, but weve been so happy, i dont get it. Am i being unreasonable for feeling hurt? What do i say if he does call, and what do i do if he never calls again? PleAse help, id really appreciate another point of view.
starr3546 Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 Hey there girl, ya know what it is weird that he isn't calling you back. That isn't a good sign. My boyfriend just did the same thing to me, he stopped calling, then i called him to make sure things were ok and he didn't return my calls...finally he did and we ended up breaking up....i would stop calling him if i were you, but iknow it is hard sitting there wondering what is going on....or if you want to u could go to his house and just be like i need to know what is going on. Not to mention that his behavior is very rude...if he isn;t intending on breaking up, i think u need to tell him that this kind of behavior of not calling you back isnt the way u operate....
mini696 Posted November 2, 2005 Posted November 2, 2005 Yeah that is strange, and I can also understand why you want him to reply, if not for anything else but closure. I might suggest he was thinking of this for a while, so he put in a strong effort to have a good time with you on that last weekend, and has now taken a step back because he doesn't know what he wants. He's probably thinking about breaking up, but I dont know. Maybe he has fallen into a well. Mick
J dub Posted November 2, 2005 Posted November 2, 2005 Its weird that hes not even bothering to let you know that he's ok, but I would take that as a sign that he needs space and the more you keep calling the further youre going to push him away. Be patient and show him that you have faith in him that everything is ok...and just wait it out til he calls you. In the meantime, keep yourself real busy, and stay away from anything with a keypad so as to not contact him any more than you already have.
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