Lishy Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 Ok we all hate when we meet someone and they play 'games' .... i.e taking ages to reply to a text/call ..... not looking too keen, not calling, following the 'rules of dating' bs .... etc All this does is create un-easiness and insecurity so why do we do it? How do we stop those games from happening? Do we be honest and say we dont like that game playing crap or do we just put up with it? Is there a way to stop it or is it normal?????????? What are your views?
alphamale Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 Is there a way to stop it or is it normal?????????? it is human nature and normal. one must embrace the "games" and accept them and learn to live with them and make them your ally and not enemy. remember that two can play at any game. many people, esp women, love drama and emotions and excitement and uncertainty.... games are not going to go away anytime soon so just have fun with them.
Art_Critic Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 I have to Agree with Alpha.. Just use them as you see fit.. There will be times they play games with you and times where you play games with them.. Even during long relationships and breakups the games are played.
whichwayisup Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 These games (most of the time) aren't mean/malcious...It's just the way it is. Noone learns it really, it's just there to do. Does that make sense? Anyway, I think everybody at some point has played the "mating, dating" game, the thrill of the chase, being interested in someone then they show interest then you lose interest and viseversa...
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