karameluv2000 Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 I am dating my sister's ex-husband. They have been divorced for 3 years because she cheated on him multiple times. Of course, my sister doesn't talk to me anymore. I don't see anything wrong with it because he is her ex and she has now been living with someone else and had his baby. My family doesn't like it because they think its a moral thing and do not want to be around this guy. I really like this guy and I think he could be "the one". I also care a lot about my family and don't want to hurt them but they are making it very difficult for me. I believe I have very good morals and don't think I am doing anything wrong because I am not the reason they got divorced(I was living in another state) and also because it's not like we had something going on while she was with him. I am hoping my family sees how I am with this guy and how happy I am and everything will blow over but I don't know how long that will take or if I can wait that long. Anyone has any advice???
downcydeguy Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 You're violating one of the biggest unwritten laws ever known. It doesn't matter if your sister is the reason for the divorce or not. He was a member of your family through HER. She made the decision to move on and obviously your family accepted her decision. You could have stayed friends with him but that's it. No guy (or girl) is worth putting between you and your family. You need to re-think your decision on this one.
glittergurl Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 I don't know ANY family who'd be okay with this. He was married to your sister, and then they divorced ... end of the story. The reason of the divorce does not matter here; that's their business. But you don't want to bring a family member's ex-husband back into the family; that's just wrong
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